"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1 month No Shaving: Experiences, Support, General Comments

chickenlegs03

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Well...the title is sort of a joke, but I do mean it.

I'm not going to shave for a month. Just for kicks really. Besides, I also get tired of people thinking/saying I look 17 when I'm actually 22. Just the other day, Friday, I was talking to the two chicks at work...

girl: so you're gonna party it up this weekend?
me: actually, yeah, i might hit up some clubs
girl: wait...how old are you?
me: i'm 22
girl: ... you're 22?? ... (very blank stare on her face)
other girl: c-legs, you're 22??? (sounding surprised)

Story of my life. Happens about once a week. I know there's other guys like me that this happens to.

I was also somewhat inspired by the "Pointification of the Week" thread, and by my own curiousity.

Rules:

  • Cutting hair or trimming down under doesn't count.
  • You can trim your beard/mustache just so it doesn't look horrendous. But you can't cut it shorter...only trimming is allowed.

I'm talking the face basically. It is tempting to shave because everyone freaking does it, but I get tired of the clean shaven look all the time.

Please join me in this voyage to looking more manly.

We should all end up looking like Adam Morrisson pretty soon (the college bball player with a mustache, for those of you who don't watch NCAA).

I'm serious, this thread isn't a joke. I dare you to join me in this.

I already haven't shaved in 2 days, so I'm past the Adam Morrisson look...the countdown officially starts now, July 9, 2006. The date of completion is August 9, 2006.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrS

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I'm going in the army for 2 years on wednesday, go figure :p
Wash well, because beards and beign unshaven can give you scabby/dry skin under there, I know I do.
 

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Sorry, some of us have real jobs and can't go in to work looking grubby.
 

Zerix

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Well since this is shaving thread, I kinda had a question about shaving underarms... use manual razor, hair removal cream, or an electric? What would you recommend?
 

thefonz

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It's the JIM Morrisson not Adam,:cuss:

Anyway, I always liked the chin strap look when it comes to beards. For me it's hard to just let it it grow cus I have such thick facial hair. I used to have a beard but i shaved it off cus it was easier to deal with. Grooming beards can be annoying.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oakraiderz2

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Zerix said:
Well since this is shaving thread, I kinda had a question about shaving underarms... use manual razor, hair removal cream, or an electric? What would you recommend?
Are you gay? Trimming is one thing, but shaving is pushing it. Why dont you shave your arms and legs while youre at it.
 

Zerix

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Wtf wrong with ya? That's like saying all swimmers and athletes are gay too.
 

oakraiderz2

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Zerix said:
Wtf wrong with ya? That's like saying all swimmers and athletes are gay too.
Not exactly. No, im saying if you shave your arm pits then thats a little fruity. If they have a reason to shave then its fine. Its kinda weird to completely shave your pits bro.
 

Zerix

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All right.

What would you recommend for trimming? Philips Norelco maybe?
 

Shiftkey

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Kudos on the title hehe

A friend of mine used to have a beard. We would make fun of how he looked like a member of the taliban even though he's half white half black. Then he shaved the beard and just grew out his mustache until a girl said he looked like Mario (aka "the Italian") lmao

Zerix, why don't you ask a girl what they use? hehe
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shiftkey said:
Zerix, why don't you ask a girl what they use? hehe
Ha ha ha ... I don't see what's wrong with this, and girls do prefer a well groomed man by the way :up:
 

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I will join you man. maybe I can actually atract more chicks.
 

KarmaSutra

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I'm too fvcking lazy to type it twice.

KarmaSutra said:
I don't have any hair on the top of my dome (to fvck nature) and usually keep my facial stuff trimmed low. Not for societal obligation or fvcking approval but for the fact that I don't want pvssy juice slathered all over my beard looking like day old egg whites on my mush.

That is the ONLY reason I don't have a Grizzly Adams style beard.
 

SamePendo

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I'll join this, just not now, in 2-3 months.

Btw, I shave my balls and all (not my asscrack...) so I guess that + HelterSkelter calling me gay makes me gay! haha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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chickenlegs03

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Okay, it's been a few days, and I have a little mustouche now. I pretty much have a goatee, except the sides haven't grown in as much. My side burns are growing out a bit too. It's a little tempting to shave it, but I'm still going strong. As far as my job goes, I think it would be fine as long I keep it nice and trim.

ah...Mario, that's a good one, lol. :rock:

Ironically Jim Morrison actually didn't sport much facial hair even though he did have long hair. But nice try ;)

Thank you all for your support, comments, and encouragement.
avrilishot, how's your journey coming along? Any progress? SamePendo, looking forward to having you on board when you're ready.
 

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I'm 18. Most people think I'm 23 cuz of my goatee.

I shaved yesterday, and now they card me for cigarettes again... i think i look stupid and ridiculous. It works for most people, but not me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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