"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1 in 4 women are on mental health medication

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think its greater than 1 in 4! Its interesting that as women have tried to compete in a mans world and accomplish what men have, they are realizing how difficult this is and many are not well equipped.......resulting in this need for "psycho meds" to try and make it thru. They simply don't have the coping skills necessary. Never have, never will.
 

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Howiestern said:
I think its greater than 1 in 4! Its interesting that as women have tried to compete in a mans world and accomplish what men have, they are realizing how difficult this is and many are not well equipped.......resulting in this need for "psycho meds" to try and make it thru. They simply don't have the coping skills necessary. Never have, never will.
Interesting theory ... so women are equipped to deal with the problems of hearth, home and interpersonal relationships, but not for the rough and tumble world of the modern economy career - so they need to take psycho meds to be able to handle it.
 

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And 9 out of 10 of those 1 out of 4 are stupid enough to take the pills despite not needing them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Again, another reason I favor 3rd world women. Over there, there is no such concealment of problems. She's just what she seems to be, nearly always. That is not to say that once she's been here a few years that she won't get to be just like the other US women. In fact, my bet is that she will. However, there are millions more just like her, where she came from.
 

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Is this another case of overdoing it on the diagnosis, pathologizing normal behavior as many believe is the case with what's happened to our boys in schools, or are western women really just that mentally bad off?

It's an interesting question IMO as the issues they're discussing directly correlates to what we've seen with the flood of prescriptions for Ritalin, Aderol, and so on for our young boys.
 

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1 out of 4 American women!! where i am from they are cool... the b!tches here in america just can't handle their own crazy lives
 

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5string said:
As Gomer Pyle would say, "surprise surprise surprise"
Gomer Pyle?
What is this, 1966?
Most of they youngsters here have probably never even heard of Gomer Pyle.
Jim Nabors is dead, BTW.

Is this another case of overdoing it on the diagnosis, pathologizing normal behavior as many believe is the case with what's happened to our boys in schools, or are western women really just that mentally bad off?
More ways for pharmaceutical complanies to make big money.
Although obviously, when moral decay takes over a society, behavior deteriorates rapidly. You definitely see this today.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zekko said:
Gomer Pyle?
What is this, 1966?
Most of they youngsters here have probably never even heard of Gomer Pyle.
Jim Nabors is dead, BTW
"Gomer Pyle. USMC" was a big syndicated show during the 70's, and I think even later as "retro" genre. And anyone who has seen "Full Metal Jacket" would have been exposed to his character as well.
 

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Well, that would explain alot.
My last girlfriend started this enormous fight with me, which culminated in the silent treatment for 2 weeks, best 2 weeks of my life btw, because I agreed with her in a conversation.
 

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zekko said:
Gomer Pyle?
What is this, 1966?
Most of they youngsters here have probably never even heard of Gomer Pyle.
Jim Nabors is dead, BTW.


More ways for pharmaceutical complanies to make big money.
Although obviously, when moral decay takes over a society, behavior deteriorates rapidly. You definitely see this today.
So what. The whole point is that it's no "surprise" that so many women are on this type of medication.
 

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I totally believe it.

I read somewhere that without discipline there can be no happyness.

Some ladies that dont really have careers or are really going to school for anything really tend to show these characteristics. Breeds from boredom I guess.

Any lady I have met with a good head on her shoulders and a good education does not have these problems...
 
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