"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

1 in 4 women are on mental health medication

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,574
Reaction score
11,619
I think its greater than 1 in 4! Its interesting that as women have tried to compete in a mans world and accomplish what men have, they are realizing how difficult this is and many are not well equipped.......resulting in this need for "psycho meds" to try and make it thru. They simply don't have the coping skills necessary. Never have, never will.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,739
Reaction score
5,154
Howiestern said:
I think its greater than 1 in 4! Its interesting that as women have tried to compete in a mans world and accomplish what men have, they are realizing how difficult this is and many are not well equipped.......resulting in this need for "psycho meds" to try and make it thru. They simply don't have the coping skills necessary. Never have, never will.
Interesting theory ... so women are equipped to deal with the problems of hearth, home and interpersonal relationships, but not for the rough and tumble world of the modern economy career - so they need to take psycho meds to be able to handle it.
 

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
And 9 out of 10 of those 1 out of 4 are stupid enough to take the pills despite not needing them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

metoo

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2011
Messages
272
Reaction score
7
Again, another reason I favor 3rd world women. Over there, there is no such concealment of problems. She's just what she seems to be, nearly always. That is not to say that once she's been here a few years that she won't get to be just like the other US women. In fact, my bet is that she will. However, there are millions more just like her, where she came from.
 

Nutz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2008
Messages
1,583
Reaction score
72
Is this another case of overdoing it on the diagnosis, pathologizing normal behavior as many believe is the case with what's happened to our boys in schools, or are western women really just that mentally bad off?

It's an interesting question IMO as the issues they're discussing directly correlates to what we've seen with the flood of prescriptions for Ritalin, Aderol, and so on for our young boys.
 

demezel

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 1, 2011
Messages
66
Reaction score
2
1 out of 4 American women!! where i am from they are cool... the b!tches here in america just can't handle their own crazy lives
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,797
Reaction score
10,027
5string said:
As Gomer Pyle would say, "surprise surprise surprise"
Gomer Pyle?
What is this, 1966?
Most of they youngsters here have probably never even heard of Gomer Pyle.
Jim Nabors is dead, BTW.

Is this another case of overdoing it on the diagnosis, pathologizing normal behavior as many believe is the case with what's happened to our boys in schools, or are western women really just that mentally bad off?
More ways for pharmaceutical complanies to make big money.
Although obviously, when moral decay takes over a society, behavior deteriorates rapidly. You definitely see this today.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,739
Reaction score
5,154
zekko said:
Gomer Pyle?
What is this, 1966?
Most of they youngsters here have probably never even heard of Gomer Pyle.
Jim Nabors is dead, BTW
"Gomer Pyle. USMC" was a big syndicated show during the 70's, and I think even later as "retro" genre. And anyone who has seen "Full Metal Jacket" would have been exposed to his character as well.
 

Lord Shinra

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
341
Reaction score
2
Location
NJ
Well, that would explain alot.
My last girlfriend started this enormous fight with me, which culminated in the silent treatment for 2 weeks, best 2 weeks of my life btw, because I agreed with her in a conversation.
 

5string

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2010
Messages
2,348
Reaction score
116
Location
Standing At The Crossroads
zekko said:
Gomer Pyle?
What is this, 1966?
Most of they youngsters here have probably never even heard of Gomer Pyle.
Jim Nabors is dead, BTW.


More ways for pharmaceutical complanies to make big money.
Although obviously, when moral decay takes over a society, behavior deteriorates rapidly. You definitely see this today.
So what. The whole point is that it's no "surprise" that so many women are on this type of medication.
 

SgtSplacker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2011
Messages
2,039
Reaction score
504
I totally believe it.

I read somewhere that without discipline there can be no happyness.

Some ladies that dont really have careers or are really going to school for anything really tend to show these characteristics. Breeds from boredom I guess.

Any lady I have met with a good head on her shoulders and a good education does not have these problems...
 
Top