"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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“So, what do you want out of this?”

fanatic22

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How do you guys deal with this question? Assuming you want to keep it casual. I feel like I always get this question after 4-5 dates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lizardking82

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"I am always on the look out for positive people to add to my life and who knows...what might happen later" + light smile and silence.
 

CMNILS87

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What do you want? Always keep it open ended. Always say, “I’m pretty busy and looking to date, if it grows more than that’s cool”. Shows you’re not desperate for a girl and are kinda relaxed
 

djthiago1

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When a girl says that, it means "i wanna be your girlfriend", i have no idea what to say to keep it casual, i don't date women i'm not interested to be in a LTR with. When they say that or something similar to me i always reply with: "why do you ask? Do you want me to be your boyfriend?" 99 times out of 100 the answer is "yes".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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