"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“I know my husbauld never do it again because I’m mean to him...”

marmel75

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So by her fearing you she's going to "put out" and be feminine? How would you go about reversing a situation that you was doormat because you where too giving to her?
No, it would stop most of the BS.

As I said there really is not a way to reverse it that is going to work very often.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, it would stop most of the BS.

As I said there really is not a way to reverse it that is going to work very often.
If you had no choice but to correct it you have one year to do it what would you do? Cheating, ignoring her and some verbal abuse are ok to use. What process to restore respect ?
 

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In other words, first impressions count. A LOT.
True. But people also change as a relationship develops. That's the trouble. The dynamic you start out with may not be the entrenched dynamic you end up with. Reversing an entrenched dynamic is much harder than making the right first impression. The frog in the pot is an accurate metaphor in many cases.
 

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wtf? next!
 
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