marmel75
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No, it would stop most of the BS.
As I said there really is not a way to reverse it that is going to work very often.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
“I know my husbauld never do it again because I’m mean to him...”
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As I said there really is not a way to reverse it that is going to work very often.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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If you had no choice but to correct it you have one year to do it what would you do? Cheating, ignoring her and some verbal abuse are ok to use. What process to restore respect ?
BeExcellent
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True. But people also change as a relationship develops. That's the trouble. The dynamic you start out with may not be the entrenched dynamic you end up with. Reversing an entrenched dynamic is much harder than making the right first impression. The frog in the pot is an accurate metaphor in many cases.
wifehunter
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wtf? next!