Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Interesting. I asked her to weed her out as a time waster. If she’s just looking for attention I want to know asap. In the old days I wasted a lot of time with time wasters because I made the assumption they were into me instead of into my validation. If you have a better way to accomplish that I’m all ears
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Insist on a phone # if she's over 25
What about for us dudes that are typically over 35 miles away from the girls on OLD?
so if Ive seen her in the first isle and weve acknowledged each other, then see her come down the 3rd isle ill ask if "shes following me because it appears she has good taste in men"
Find girls closer. You could find a watering hole that you enjoy and can frequent often, make it the spot for your crew. Learn the names of all the bartenders and bouncers and use that to your advantage when you pick up ladies in the bar.
Love it. I am going to use that one for sure.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
obviously be ready for any comebacks or shut downs, the clint eastwood smerk is always good to keep in the chamber and then walk off.
"I didn't say you can eat your victims."