Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It wasn’t talked about that much, but it was important. I knew it was so so important more than 30 years ago, when I was in school and couldn’t get girls to notice me, I figured it out very quickly. Very quickly. Now everyone is talking about it.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah agree. At 5’10” I had to rely on my hair in the past to do most of the work. I got zero attention (due to neutral height) until I grew the hair out and spiked it tall.
5'9"-5'10" are not good heights to be when trying to attract women. They are the most neutral of heights. It's better than it isn't short king territory, but those heights are the best heights for being overlooked in the mating environment.
That's not helping on "height, hair, money". Height is neutral at best and hair is not outstanding. Full buzzing is better than Norwood stages 3-6 but still not as good as a solid hairline in a Norwood 1.