"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
¡ʇǝuɹǝʇuı ǝɥʇ ǝʞoɹq ı
- Thread starter Jariel
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
hows the leg?
comic_relief
~attrACTION~
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¡d1ǝɥ ǝuoǝɯos ¡¡¡snɹıʌ ɐ sɐɥ pɐǝɹɥʇ sıɥʇ ʞuıɥʇ ı '1nɟǝɹɐɔ ǝq.ʇɹɐʇsǝɹ ı uǝɥʍ pǝxıɟ ʇǝb 11ıʍ ʇı ʞuıɥʇ ı '11ǝʍ ɥo
¡ǝuoʎɹǝʌǝ ɥʇɹnoɟ ʎddɐɥ 'ʎɐʍ ǝɥʇ ʎq
:rockon:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Create Reality
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Desdinova
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Don't bother. Win2k is cool. I scrubbed Vista in favor of Win2k dual booting with Ubuntu. Vista made this computer a fvcking turtle. If I wanted that Aero Glass 5hit, I'd have to get a new video card. Ubuntu does transparency fine with the onboard.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Call AL Gore!
Al will save us!!!!!!!!
Desdinova
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Yeah, it's before you they introduced Windows Genuine Advantage and that DRM crap. I keep Win2k Pro for compatibility. For anything modern, I'm going Linux. Speaking of which, I'll probably be switching Linux over to 64 bit in the very near future.
The unfortunate downside is not a lot of game developers develop for the mac market, but they exist.
However for anything windows, there is an equal or better mac counterpart of the program!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
2.) mac
3) windows
once you go redhat, you never go back
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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He invented the internet after all!Interceptor said:
Can't keep his kid off the nose candy though . . .