"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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.sʞɹoʍ buıɥʇou ʇnq uʍop ǝpısdn ɹoʇıuoɯ puɐ ɔd ʎɯ buıuɹnʇ pǝıɹʇ ǝʌɐɥ ı ¿dn ʎɐʍ ʇɥbıɹ ǝɥʇ ʇı uɹnʇ oʇ ǝɯ d1ǝɥ ʎpoqʎuɐ uɐɔ .ʇǝuɹǝʇuı ǝɥʇ uǝʞoɹq ǝʌɐɥ ı
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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interesting

hows the leg?

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¡¡pɐǝɹɥʇ sıɥʇ oʇ ʇob ı ɹǝʇɟɐ ooʇ uǝʞoɹq ʇob ʇǝuɹǝʇuı ʎɯ

:eek: ¡d1ǝɥ ǝuoǝɯos :eek: ¡¡¡snɹıʌ ɐ sɐɥ pɐǝɹɥʇ sıɥʇ ʞuıɥʇ ı '1nɟǝɹɐɔ ǝq

.ʇɹɐʇsǝɹ ı uǝɥʍ pǝxıɟ ʇǝb 11ıʍ ʇı ʞuıɥʇ ı '11ǝʍ ɥo

¡ǝuoʎɹǝʌǝ ɥʇɹnoɟ ʎddɐɥ 'ʎɐʍ ǝɥʇ ʎq

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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speaking of... as much of a techie as I am.. I still haven't upgraded to vista.. is it worth it? on the laptop I am on I have a dual partition with Win 2000 pro and SuSE... I had XP but downgraded back to 2000 pro.
 

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lmao this makes me wanna upgrade to vista. good for a laugh
 

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That's interesting... I couldn't read it when I was at work, but I can read it fine here.

on the laptop I am on I have a dual partition with Win 2000 pro and SuSE
Don't bother. Win2k is cool. I scrubbed Vista in favor of Win2k dual booting with Ubuntu. Vista made this computer a fvcking turtle. If I wanted that Aero Glass 5hit, I'd have to get a new video card. Ubuntu does transparency fine with the onboard.
 

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that's kinda the jist I have been hearing. Win 2000 Pro is the best OS windows ever dreamed of building.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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;) ¡noʎ oʇ ʇı buıssɐd ɹoɟ uoıʇɔɐɹʇʇɐ ʎɹɹos

.pɐǝɥ ʎɯ uo puɐʇs oʇ ǝʌɐɥ ı .pɐq os ʇou s,ʇı ¡¡buıɥʇǝɯos ɹo snɹıʌ ɐ ǝq ʇsnɯ ʇı ʇnq dx sʍopuıʍ buısn 11ıʇs ɯɐ ı
 

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QUICK!

Call AL Gore!

Al will save us!!!!!!!!
 

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Win 2000 Pro is the best OS windows ever dreamed of building.
Yeah, it's before you they introduced Windows Genuine Advantage and that DRM crap. I keep Win2k Pro for compatibility. For anything modern, I'm going Linux. Speaking of which, I'll probably be switching Linux over to 64 bit in the very near future.
 

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mac os X rules all, forget anything windows related!
The unfortunate downside is not a lot of game developers develop for the mac market, but they exist.
However for anything windows, there is an equal or better mac counterpart of the program!
 

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1) linux
2.) mac
3) windows


once you go redhat, you never go back
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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