"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    To all the DJs here. I am looking for a perspective. Here is how things went: I was a typical friend-zone person. Met a girl 12 years ago (let us call her “Susan”), liked her but did not had the guts to say anything so became best friends with her but eventually I moved on towards other women...
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    Possible study buddy situation with potential

    Hi, all! This is actually my first time posting on this site (or any really) so I'll just get right to it. There is this girl who's in one of my science courses who figured out that I made a really good grade on our latest test. She has already smiled at me before this in lab like the day I got...
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