"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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  1. AureliusMaximus

    OLD is rigged by the companies according to this video...

    Well just see this video (the sequence from were it starts 6.27 -->finish): I never really liked OLD apps and sites and never used them much as I like the personal IRL approach. Neitherless its quite interesting to get the confirmation most of us suspect....
  2. W

    Do dating apps work for you ?

    I started looking out for dates recently since I’m lonely and trying to get over my ex who is filling up my inbox every day with passive aggressive messages to get back which I definitely don’t want to get back to. I’ve tried tinder and bumble so far for about 2 weeks. Got matched with about 1...
  3. TheNewStyle123

    Trying to convince a friend to swallow the red pill...

    Hi everyone! My friend (let's call him J) is up visiting this weekend and we are trying to make the best of this COVID situation by finding something to do out on the town. Anyways, I am 27, recently divorced, and having fun on the dating apps while applying the principles learned from 'The...
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