"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're on So Suave but are YOU ... Suave at all ?

SmooveMooves

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Hi, I'm Smoove.

Slow down, take a deep breath. In. now out, Good. Slow is good. This site is titled SoSuave for a reason, but alot of people forget that aspect of being a DJ. People come here and learn what to say, when to say it and why, but fail to implement it smoothly (pun intended). Alot of the social interactions I've observed are awkward, the Guy knows what to say, he knows he needs to build rapport wait til there's a high point get the number and jet. but there's never a high point, the interaction is clunky, clumsy and the way he goes about it just plain weird:

Rushed speech
Poor posture
Awkward and sudden movements

None of these things are suave, and ultimately lead to an embarrassing rejection.

Confidence is the root of all suaveness.

Be confident, be suave. If you must think before you say something, do so, suave men don't waste words, what they say is short meaningful and straightfoward. Speak with a smooth voice, deep and consistent, let your voice resonate within the listeners ears Stop walking with your head down, the world is yours, walk around with your head up making eye contact with all your subjects.

And for goodness sake SLOW DOWN, this one is key, what's the rush for?
Speak at your own pace
Walk at your own pace
Fvck at your own pace
You must have the charm of a sociopath
The charisma of a public speaker
The passion of a pvssy
And give the fvcks of a virgin.

You are the suavest on the planet, females all around the world shall fall victim to your suaveness and drop their panties at record breaking speeds.
Stay Suave

-Smoove
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Great post dude.

Edit: Can you explain this one? haha.
The passion of a pvssy
 
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SmooveMooves

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Great post dude.

Edit: Can you explain this one? haha.
Haha, sure. By this I simply mean the enthusiasm and affection an AFC would normally project upon an oneitis, You take the same passion and project it into yourself, your actions, and interactions.

Being truly suave, even the most small things you say should hold massive weight.

Even your comment about a single blade of grass in a nearby field should cause a thunderous erupition of awe from the listener like a shirtless Justin Bieber among 6-7 yr. olds

Haha surely this is hyperbole, but you get my point. LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SmooveMooves said:
Hi, I'm Smoove.

Slow down, take a deep breath. In. now out, Good. Slow is good. This site is titled SoSuave for a reason, but alot of people forget that aspect of being a DJ. People come here and learn what to say, when to say it and why, but fail to implement it smoothly (pun intended). Alot of the social interactions I've observed are awkward, the Guy knows what to say, he knows he needs to build rapport wait til there's a high point get the number and jet. but there's never a high point, the interaction is clunky, clumsy and the way he goes about it just plain weird:

Rushed speech
Poor posture
Awkward and sudden movements

None of these things are suave, and ultimately lead to an embarrassing rejection.

Confidence is the root of all suaveness.

Be confident, be suave. If you must think before you say something, do so, suave men don't waste words, what they say is short meaningful and straightfoward. Speak with a smooth voice, deep and consistent,

Repped.
 
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