CantTouchMyStyle
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godspeed
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
** Do NOT sleep w/ chicks you work with **
- Thread starter CantTouchMyStyle
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
northern_rock
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I'm sleeping with a chick who ATTENDS the College where I work...though she graduates in 3 weeks. And I get along fantastically well with a colleague whom is super-sexually driven and singles me out for talks and catch-ups, though we've already sworn to not fornicate 'coz it might be awkward. Oh, and she's engaged. Not happening...though I was the first aside from her beau to view the girls after the boob job.
It really depends on the job though. If there is a policy where its frowned upon, illegal or if you are in a higher position in the job place then its a big no. I agree its not worth it to have sex with a girl once or twice to only lose your job over her.
Masculinity
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It's always a big no-no because if she declines or you do something she doesn't like she can simply say you were sexually harassing her. Who do you think they're going to believe? Exactly.