"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Choice of GUARANTEE FOR Valentines?

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OPTION 1 - Well I can either see one of my dates this FRIDAY 02.12.10 AND on Valentines Day, she seems like she won't flake but I can't guarantee that, so I've got 2 other options. She is more than happy to travel upto me, and she suggested coming.

OPTION 2 - See one of my targets whose travellling down from far with her 4 Wild girlfriends and get totally smashed with them and my friends ,isolate her and hopefully ONS (since we've been speaking for so long), its a penthouse they're going to be staying in.

OR

OPTION 3 - See another date who is coming down from far ALSO, and its a guranteed LAY. Thing is, the FIRST (OPTION 1) girl is someone I closed recently and want to see if I have learnt anything from here since joining last year.

Options 2 is a 50/50% chance SNL and Option 3 is a guaranteed SNL.

Wise thing to do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If I understand correctly, it's a bad idea to take a girl you've just met out on valentines. That position is reserved for GFs, otherwise it's too intimate and needy.

I'd say go get smashed with the girl and her friends, maybe you'll get a 5-some ;)
 
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THREE THREE THREE!

Sorry, that must just be my wild party animal side coming out again :)
 
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HeyPachuco! said:
K,

OPTION 1 - Well I can either see one of my dates this FRIDAY 02.12.10 AND on Valentines Day, she seems like she won't flake but I can't guarantee that, so I've got 2 other options. She is more than happy to travel upto me, and she suggested coming.

OPTION 2 - See one of my targets whose travellling down from far with her 4 Wild girlfriends and get totally smashed with them and my friends ,isolate her and hopefully ONS (since we've been speaking for so long), its a penthouse they're going to be staying in.

OR

OPTION 3 - See another date who is coming down from far ALSO, and its a guranteed LAY. Thing is, the FIRST (OPTION 1) girl is someone I closed recently and want to see if I have learnt anything from here since joining last year.

Options 2 is a 50/50% chance SNL and Option 3 is a guaranteed SNL.

Wise thing to do?
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Go with 1 and 3. Question: How long is option 2 available and which nights are they available? I only ask because if you REALLY played this right, you could maybe have all three options. It'd be a jammed packed weekend but it would be fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Option 2 girl will be in the city from 02.12.10 till the 02.15.10. She texted me asking if I was busy this V-day Weekend and that I should come and have a drink with here and her girlfriends, I haven't replied back yet, but I need to let her know because there Penthouse won't be open all night for guys to just come thru anytime.

Option 3. I'm not thinking about IF I'm going to these actual date, I'm just thinking about how I'm going to lose her, she wants an LTR, I just want the SNL. I'll think of something. :)
 
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Option 2
 
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Damn it, thought she would flake

FVCK!!!

Option 1 is hellbent on coming up to see me in about approx. 1 HOUR, man, I didn't even feel like seeing anyone today, I haven't prepared anything. Theres like left over Pizza from yesterday. I have no clue on what we should do, it would've been better to see her tommorow since my parents our going away for there anniversary for 2nights.

Guess I'm just going to have to slug it out. She said she was going to be in the area helping her friend with some homework, but she couldn't be bothered, so instead she told me she will be making her way up to me in an hour after dropping her little sister home.

Get WASTED - Dvd - then LAY? Mom's in, and she will be up and down the house packing her stuff. I'm just in one of those "My time" moods. Like walking around the house naked with nobody there moods, fvck it. Stay tuned for the report in my field reports thread on this one.
 
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