"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I was hanging out with my girlfriend (about 4 months) last night and she used my cell phone to log on facebook. (I despise it, and check it about once every 2-3 weeks, or use it for school purposes)

Anyway this morning i went on it and i saw that she was still logged in...of course instead of logging out I decided to look at her messages.

The first one was to some guy asking him to find her and her friend a date to another school's prom. She contacted him, not the other way around.

Message as follows:

Hey ---- its been a while...but i was wondering if u could do me/---- a huge favor...were trying to go to prom and we kinda need ppl to take us and we figured u would know some ppl so if u do let me know =) thanks




I looked through the rest, and there was nothing else to any other guys. Maybe I am just overreacting, but it seems disrespectful to me.

Any advice would be good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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uhhhhh....thats the biggest overreaction ive ever heard of
 
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There is absolutely NOTHING wrong or disrespectful about that message.
 
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Apocalypse Now said:
Why isn't she taking you to the prom?
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How do you know she's not? The guy was basically asking her to set him and his buddy up with a couple of her friends. WTF is the big deal, here? He wasnt asking HER to the prom.

She's innocent (according to this anyway!), OP's insecure. End of story.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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horaholic said:
How do you know she's not? The guy was basically asking her to set him and his buddy up with a couple of her friends. WTF is the big deal, here? He wasnt asking HER to the prom.

She's innocent (according to this anyway!), OP's insecure. End of story.
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"The first one was to some guy asking him to find her and her friend a date to another school's prom. She contacted him, not the other way around."
 
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horaholic said:
How do you know she's not? The guy was basically asking her to set him and his buddy up with a couple of her friends. WTF is the big deal, here? He wasnt asking HER to the prom.

She's innocent (according to this anyway!), OP's insecure. End of story.
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your misunderstanding..

SHE sent that, not the other way around.
 
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Apocalypse Now said:
Why isn't she taking you to the prom?
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I should probably clarify.

She goes to an All girls school - No Prom.

I go to an all boy's.

The guy that she messaged also goes to another all boy's school.
 
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You said that's her first message and you guys been together for 4 months. I still have messages about a year old in my inbox. Did you check the date of when she sent that message?

Also, what Apocalypse said, why isn't she bringing you?
 
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Social Calibration said:
You said that's her first message and you guys been together for 4 months. I still have messages about a year old in my inbox. Did you check the date of when she sent that message?

Also, what Apocalypse said, why isn't she bringing you?
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Thats the first thing I thought, and it was dated March 19th. With a reply from him the 20th.

And as I mentioned above because she goes to an all girl's school they don't have a prom for their school.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cw92 said:
Thats the first thing I thought, and it was dated March 19th. With a reply from him the 20th.

And as I mentioned above because she goes to an all girl's school they don't have a prom for their school.
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Has she ever brought it up to you?
 
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how bout you stop having a guuuuurlfriend when you are only in high school. Why in the world are you committing yourself to just ONE girl? Now you are acting like a chump in your own mind, and you are worrying about bullshyt things like this, when all that you should be doing is trolling for as much new p$ssy as possible!!!

why are you committed to this girl? whats the point?
 
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it seems disrespectful to me.

Much less so than going through her phone. I had a girl read my email once at my house behind my back and I literally threw her out the door and sent her walking down the street at 1 am, it made me that mad.
 
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cw92 said:
your misunderstanding..

SHE sent that, not the other way around.
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Oh. My apologies, I totally DID read that wrong. In that case, yeah, you have a problem.
 
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my advice better not be missed by the original poster, because its the kind of advice that will solve his problems now, and for the foreseeable future as well when it comes to how to manage women
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A) You have a problem that she's looking for other guys to go to the prom with instead of you

B) You're young and have no business getting wrapped up in serious relationships. Turn down the formality and date a bunch of other girls for a decade.
 
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these girls go to an all girl school and they just want to go to the prom at some other school so that they can look back and say they went to the damn prom.

no one is asking them, so they sent a message to some dude they knew.
all they need is two guys to show up with them to get them in, and then they can be there and do whatever they want.

the only things weird about it is that she didn't tell you what they were planning to do.

perhaps she only sent it and left herself logged in, is so you could get jealous and ask her to your stinking prom.


don't ask me what is so dreamy about this prom thing , but most chicks really dream about going. i don't know, because i never gave a crap and wasn't even in school by the time my friends were going.
 
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don't ask me what is so dreamy about this prom thing , but most chicks really dream about going. i don't know, because i never gave a crap


That's because you are cool. :cool: Most girls...not so much.
 
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perhaps the chicks that demand that they attend the prom, whether it be as dreamy and special as they expect....or not...
are the same chicks that spend 5 grand on a wedding ...
you know the ones,,,five fluffy puke peach bridesmaids dresses , five layer cake in five different flavors, little food things people call hor' devours that taste the crap, freggin chocolate fountains to stick strawberries and cheese in... releasing butterflies instead of letting people chuck rice at them with caterers and a dj because they don't know a good band....

yah... i am now betting this is prelude to the land of the delusional...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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