"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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B-Lemond

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This is a list of Affirmations that I put together.

Print this out and read it ALOUD everyday! It will make a SIGNIFICANT difference in a short amount of time.
I won't explain why affirmations work. If you wish to know then you could do a search. Onto the Affirmations:
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- The more I like myself the more others like themselves.

- I am fully competent and capable in everything that I decide to
do.

- I am highly creative, intelligent, attractive, energetic, sexy,
witty, smart, healthy, wealthy and wise.

- I love myself unconditionally just as I am.

- I am the only person that I need.

- I feel comfortable around other people.

- Other people feel comfortable around me and enjoy my presence.

- I am fun and exciting to be with because I always have a good
time.

- I am comfortable talking to women.

- I am comfortable touching women.

- Women to whom I pay attention are extremely lucky - I am what
women want.

- I acknowledge my sexuality.

- I have to look my best all the time.

- Women must prove themselves worthy of my time and attention to
receive it.

- I make no excuses for myself as a man, and I'm INNOCENT, not guilty.

- Every week of my life is an exciting, action-packed adventure.

- There is no woman alive who can resist my charm and charisma.

- My confidence is unstoppable.

- I have the power and the passion to make my life what I will.

- I act.  I don't re-act.

- I control my emotions every minute of the day.

- I am not intimidated by anyone.

- I act swiftly to get what I want from life.  He who hesitates is lost.

- Fear is the mind-killer.  I will use my fear as power.

- I work every day to improve myself, learn, and become more powerful.

- I live my life by my own code of honor.

- My actions mirror my beliefs - congruently.

- I'm a powerful communicator.

- I never apologize for myself.

- I make no excuses for my desires as a man.

- I move through this world without apology.

- I like to satisfy women.

- I don't need any particular woman, I am not needy.

- Women are abundant.

- I do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive.

- Rejection is a good thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid.

- I learn something every time. Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace.

- I do not dwell in the past.

- The past can not be relived, good or bad.

- I have a wide range of options in how I choose to react to other people. The choice is mine.

- I talk slow ...

- I do not care what others think ...

- I do not move or turn around because of others ...

- People have to work for my attention / interest ...

- I ignore those who are not worthy of my attention ...

- I move slowly, relaxed and controlled ...

- I stand straight, poised and spread in a relaxed way ..

- I speak in a deep, relaxed tone ...

- I remain alpha regardless of what crisis comes my way ...

- I never supplicate to others ...

- I never qualifie myself to others ...

- I get more credit for minor actions than betas ...

- I have the ultimative comfort in my own skin...

- I am the leader ...

- I attract others with my frames ...
... because I am Alpha

- I am not afraid to touch women, because women like to be touched by me.

- My sex drive is MY sex drive. MY desires are all that matter. MY satisfaction is what counts. I do not care what other people think of MY sex drive.

- I am a Don Juan
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PRiSM92289

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I'm not here to ask how they work, but for some reason I felt a little cheesy reading some of them outloud..I will continue to use them though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I once read some literature by RJ and he suggests for increasing the effectiveness of affirmations: read the affirmations in one order, while at the same time playing the affirmations on a tape recorder in a different order. So the tape recorder is always playing a different affirmation than the one you're reading. I think he called it double-induction and said it's more powerful that simply reading them. Anyone have experience doing it that way?
 

NeW2TheGame

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Umm...does the first point make sense?

- The more I like myself the more others like themselves.
Is it suppose to be "- The more I like myself the more others like me"?
 

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Affirmations rock, how do you particulary use them do you use any mental images of yourself while saying them? do you repeat them? I have my own list but its much shorter than thta one
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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UberPhil said:
I once read some literature by RJ and he suggests for increasing the effectiveness of affirmations: read the affirmations in one order, while at the same time playing the affirmations on a tape recorder in a different order. So the tape recorder is always playing a different affirmation than the one you're reading. I think he called it double-induction and said it's more powerful that simply reading them. Anyone have experience doing it that way?
This is a very good idea,

An even better way would be to record them in one order on one tape recorder and in a different order on another recorder. play them at the same time with a different head phone in each ear so you have two different things playing. Its supposed to be the most effective way of getting into your subconcious.

could always read them as well in an even different order.

Always remember to relax when reading affirmations aswell
 

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Instead of asking affirmations straight ask them in the form of a question.

Like "Why am I so attractive to women?"
and then answer yourself with "Because I'm good looking, funny, confident etc.

Most importantly get in the feeling of the affirmation truely feel sexy or attractive of whatever it will not only make you more confident it will make the universe line up scenarios to prove you correct.
 

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Dude, you got the secret DVD in your siggy I'm not too worried about you.:D
 
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Well, anyone has any luck really practising these affirmations out and seeing results in real life?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is sort of like a self-positive reinforcement. Not a bad thing though.

Self-Confidence is what really drives this. You start this, you think more positive, your self-confidence goes up, you feel better about things. It's a good cycle.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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