"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going to Ethiopia!

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I just found out that the company I work for is sending us over to Ethiopia to put up some AM towers in a few weeks! :D

I'll be there for about 4-5 weeks. I've been working with this crew while trying to secure a teaching job here in the local district, and it's turned out to be quite the job. We've travelled all over the western US, but now we have this contract in Ehtiopia, then we're off to Guam later in the summer, and Hawaii is also on the agenda. Maybe I'll put off finding that teaching job!

I am so stoked! We fly into Amsterdam, and then on to Africa. I am so pumped to spend time in Amsterdam and experience the local culture. :up:

Anybody ever spent any time in Africa or have any advice for this guy? Fvckin' A, man this is sweet! If only the AIDS rate weren't like 99% over there...

Pics of me working:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Magma said:
I am so stoked! We fly into Amsterdam, and then on to Africa. I am so pumped to spend time in Amsterdam and experience the local culture. :up:

Anybody ever spent any time in Africa or have any advice for this guy? Fvckin' A, man this is sweet! If only the AIDS rate weren't like 99% over there...
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Bring condoms. Look in your bag before you go and count how many you have. The go out and buy more.
 
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Wow congrats. Over seas work pays a ton of dough, right?

Ever been out of the country before?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bring condoms. Look in your bag before you go and count how many you have. The go out and buy more.
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Well, since we're only in Amsterdam for a few hours on a layover, I'm just going to find the nearest coffee shop and get ripped to the bay-jeezus, and NOT worry about the red light district. I've never paid for sex, and am not about to start.

I just can't imagine even THINKING about sex in Africa. Fvcking yikes.

My dollar is going to go a long way over there, that's for sure. I guess some of the local guys we're hiring are going to be making $10 a day, which is about twice what they normally get paid.

I guess it's just exciting for me because I've only been east of the Mississippi River once in my life, and that was when my parents took us to Disney World when I was 11. And Canada doesn't count as travelling abroad either. I was in Nogales, Mexico one time. I thought I was going to wake up in a bathtub full of ice with my kidneys missing!
 
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ThunderMaverick said:
Wow congrats. Over seas work pays a ton of dough, right?

Ever been out of the country before?
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Dude, the pay is going to be sick! I'll have enough in a month to get all the parts, motor, and frame for a '69 Triumph Bonneville that I've been wanting to build. Can't wait!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You live a strange and fascinating life Mac.
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This is however another prime reason why I am able to attract women. Because I live a fascinating life. I don't necessarily let all the strange stuff that your referencing be known, just the fascinating stuff.:rock:
 
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Magma................. Have a great trip! I've never been to Africa but I've been to Amsterdam several times. It's a blast. Cheers!
 
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