escaleraroyal
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why do girls think it's creepy to cold approach them and ask for their number? I really don't understand this.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Are we creepy?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MartyMcFly
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I hope you're not just running up to them and asking for their number without building rapport first?
Mantis Toboggan
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It's creepy if you suck as a person.
But you know damn well these girls dream of walking to the coffee shop and "bumping into" the man of their dreams. Girls want to be picked up.
If a girl is telling you that it's creepy, it's because she didnt like the guy.
But you know damn well these girls dream of walking to the coffee shop and "bumping into" the man of their dreams. Girls want to be picked up.
If a girl is telling you that it's creepy, it's because she didnt like the guy.
The difference between creepy or self confident is how you look like and how expensive your clothes are.
Also most of the girls are like kids,when they hear a "impressive" word they find any possible way to make it fit in the line,they like to impress people.
Also most of the girls are like kids,when they hear a "impressive" word they find any possible way to make it fit in the line,they like to impress people.
initiatorhater06
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I hate how *****es have to be so damn paranoid
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In2theGame
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I guess its how you approached them, what did you do or how did you say it, what did you say?
Honestly im not that good at approaching, i hardly ever approach girls, if ever. Girls always initiated talk with me and that opened the door to talk. How were you dressed? what was your style? did you make eye contact atleast before you approached?
Honestly im not that good at approaching, i hardly ever approach girls, if ever. Girls always initiated talk with me and that opened the door to talk. How were you dressed? what was your style? did you make eye contact atleast before you approached?
In2theGame
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Dont be so mean LOLvatoloco said:Only when you're ugly.
cablecow15
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some times girls are intimidated by average joes with so much confidence , they can only explain it by him being weird. if you dressed liek a goth dude , no mater what your gonnabe creepy , to all but goth girlsIn2theGame said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No, I'm serious. Nowadays, if you cold approach girls who don't dig you (i.e., they don't find you physically attractive, you are "ugly" to them) you will be labeled a "creeper," etc. Do you think they'd label a high-status, physically-attractive male (like Clooney or Pitt) a creeper for cold approaching them? *shakes Magic 8-Ball* "My sources say no."In2theGame said:Dont be so mean LOLvatoloco said:Only when you're ugly.
That why I only cold approach the ones who smile back.
Atom Smasher
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vatoloco said:That why I only cold approach the ones who smile back.
Failsafe.
Who cares.
Your only concern is success or fail with your approaches and learning from them, so what if you make a few girls feel a bit uncomfortable?! its not going to ruin their day, as a a matter of fact they will just talk about it to their friends in order to show how hot they are which will make them feel good in the end.
read this instead:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155965&highlight=obey+****
Your only concern is success or fail with your approaches and learning from them, so what if you make a few girls feel a bit uncomfortable?! its not going to ruin their day, as a a matter of fact they will just talk about it to their friends in order to show how hot they are which will make them feel good in the end.
read this instead:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155965&highlight=obey+****
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BlackMack177
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The only difference Between a creep and a hot guy is that one is hoe and the other is not
Edward Cullen is a prime example of this. Imagine Jaba the hutt doing all the sh1t that man gets away with to a chick and see how attractive he is.
Edward Cullen is a prime example of this. Imagine Jaba the hutt doing all the sh1t that man gets away with to a chick and see how attractive he is.
dereklovesugly
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It's all about how you approach. You've got to notice body language well and pick up signs from them. That makes a cold approach alot easier. It also helps of you're at least average looking and not dressed like a turd