You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You just bagged one! Now put hiw up for scrutiny at the troll thread. This is a great snippet of info he just posted.Michele said:Either you're a troll... or you're an idiot who said the same exact thing with Snake's On A Plane (which was your thread... that was locked)
get the **** out.
Your old post about 'Snakes On A Plane'
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Docs said:You my friend, just volunteerred to be test subject #2,
[ hope7 ]
Troll Target Acquired
Your a joke buddy. Get out of the forums. And no everything is not going to be okay. Test subject Number 2!!hope7 said:Its called a joke dude. Calm down, everythings gonna be ok.
hope7 said:Its called a joke dude. Calm down, everythings gonna be ok.