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Actions not words. Got it. I really need to keep this in mind. But as I've seen previously, the advice i receive on this board is top notch and has not failed me yet. The thing is it's easier said then done, as I've reflected on my past dates I realized that my kino is very clumsy and seems...

I gotta agree, Tizzle, I kept my relationship going long past the point of yours, and I ignored a few signs. Eventually she told me she wasn't happy. Then she had a new boyfriend a week later. Did she cheat? No doubt about it. I initiated NC, and in my most recent thread I chronicled some of...

Very true, I can't remember which thread I read this from...but someone's sig said something to the effect of "I'd rather get rejected for escalating too fast, then Friendzoned for not escalating at all" I'm facing a similar problem, but it looks like im deeper in the friendzone then you.

Damn, I did not think of it like that at all. Once I saw the word "friend", I immediately backed off. That could have been a perfect opportunity to let her know that I'm not after friendship.

Thank you so much for the advice, and for reading my post (it was extremely long). But after reading your advice, it seems like I've made way too many mistakes with this girl. It's been awhile since I've been single, and counting her I've gotten friend-zoned twice in the past few weeks. It's...

Ex-Girlfriend Rejection/ Advice on a new girl (Friendzone??) Just quickly I'd like to post about my ex-girlfriend, who I orginally posted about. More or less she recently tried to get with me again WHILE she was still with her new boyfriend... Text Excerpt (I havent spoken to her in...

I'm 18. I've been with two women. Both were LTRS through High school. As for the number of times I had sex, I can't really say. Its not amazingly high, but it was more or less every weekend.

Awesome man! This has given me inspiration to get past my ex as well. Oh and Drak ool, thanks for the info on LMR because Im going to try to get a lay (or at least a BJ) tonight with a girl i hooked up with yesterday. I'm definitely going to use this method

Thank you for the advice Jeff, I'd like to tell you that I did call her soon after I first posted here to end the relationship, but it just so happened that she had sent me a letter and she was waiting for me to call. As soon as I called her she asked me why I didnt call sooner, and she missed...

Oh my god. Why didnt I see this before? I wish I had some sort of rep. That needs to be stickied immediately! But as for the guy who said I dont seem torn up, honestly I feel like sh!t, especially because there was another guy all along it seems, or at least someone she met over in cali. I'm...

Those are words to live by Rescue.

It feels terrible to know that this was going on, I'm not 100% sure of her cheating but let's call a spade a spade. I went through her recent friends, and found that a person I knew was mutual friends with the guy. This girl then told me they had been exchanging messages, and she asked ME if...

Thanks for all the advice guys, I really appreciate it. I completely understand what's going on, and that she is using this as an excuse. The problem was at the time, I half-halfheartedly agreed because I didnt want to lose her, and I convinced myself that we would get back together. She...

I agreed with your post, and I kind of figured that was why she wanted to have a break, but what I'm really asking is if I should just outright end it? Because she knows that I didnt want an open relationship and now I've lost any leverage I may of had leaving the relationship.

I was so astonished that she would ask for one but I told her I had reservations about it but she insisted and I agreed. She said she felt really "guilty". She said it was because we wouldn't see each other all summer, and blah blah blah. But she still wants to talk on fb, text, and exchange...

I am 18, and going on 19 in November. She is a month older then me. I see what your saying though, and it really makes sense. It's just tough to see that its ending like this, because prior she was the one who was consistently contacting me. Before she left she even told me multiple times...

Thank you all for the quick responses, but now I am a little confused. The one thing I did get was that I will NOT mention anything to her. I also need to start looking for other women. About the relationship? I should or should not be attempting to break up with her? Im confused on...

So I've been in a relationship with this girl for 3 months. (Not to long, but I had been seeing her for almost 6). It was her idea to finally becoming exclusive, though we had been doing so for about 2 months into us seeing each other. Okay so, she left about 15 days ago to go to...