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Oh yeah and this reminds me of another reason I broke things off with her. She started to seem very manipulative. She was like some kind of expert on making people feel sorry for her. Being somewhat aware of these kinds of female-tricks I say through some of it and I started to see a very ugly...

Also, to address the ongoing conversation in this thread: There seems to be two differing viewpoints. A) All women have skeletons in their closet and you should embrace women who are sexually promiscuous. B) Sexually promiscuous women are sluts and you should hold out for a more "pure"...

Just an update on the situation: I ended up breaking things off with this girl. One reason was of course the subject of this thread. I just could not take her seriously after she told me about the group sex stuff. It played on my mind a lot. I never told her that this was one of the...

it was one of those "oh what's the craziest place you've done it/craziest thing you've done" type of conversations. that's when this bombshell was dropped on me lol.

How would you guys handle finding out that your girlfriend has had sex with two or more guys at once in the past? Like a mmf or a mmmf? What if she was a totally awesome person now with her life together, but had done these things years ago when she was younger? She is intelligent...

Lots of responses to this so I guess it's something we all deal with at some point or another. She hasn't brought it up at all since I posted the original post. I think I'm going to take everyone's advice here to heart and figure out a plan if it happens again. Not quite sure what approach...

Seriously?

So I've started seeing a new girl for a few months. Relationship is going really well. She's told me she loves me etc. Now I've got my best guy friend, who always brings along another guy who is also kind of my friend. This "kind of" friend is kinda new to the circle, I don't know him really...

Yeah maybe I will never get her back who knows. If I did it would probably only be temporary anyways. I don't think things could ever go back to how they were.

Yeah which sucks because that's after i don't care about her anymore and after she's fuked other guys. Why would I want her back then? This whole "getting the ex back" thing after they've dated someone else is just pointless I guess.

Ok, well I am reading it because i'm interested in the topic, but I'm not expecting much out of it. And I'll read the pook stuff thanks.

I've noticed how a person's username seems to reflect his posts pretty well. lol. Bluntmaster you are very blunt! Mr.Positive makes me lawl with his positivity. Although I think sometimes they do come back, it's best not to get your hopes up.

Yeah I know it's stupid but I'm just trying to pass the time by reading something. And I don't think I'm a lost cause. I don't think I'll be able to get her back really, just wanted to see what i could have done instead so i'll know for next time, which there hopefully won't be a next time like...

Hey guys, just wanted to say thanks for the support. Interesting events have unfolded over the last few days. I sent her a letter last week just saying good luck and that I agreed with the breakup etc. Nothing really too bad. I ended up seeing her at a bar over the weekend. She was with a...

You're right I do feel worse, much worse. I just have this feeling like if I just send her a letter all of the sudden she will crack and start talking to me again. I have this hope that she's just on the verge of maybe communicating with me. I feel like a gambler chasing a loss. It's really a...

My depression just seems to be getting worse by the day. I still haven't got an email back from her. I actually cried today after work. I haven't cried over a girl in probably about 10 or 12 years. I think she may have blocked my email address or something. I know she's blocked me on msn and...

Ok guys, I'll stop worrying about my age. You've brought up some good points. But as for getting back with the ex, I've been doing some thinking. There's really two components that affect whether or not couples get back together: 1) How she feels, and 2) How I act I can't control #1, so all I...

Also, I sent that email to her a few days ago. Still no response. Wondering if I should send her another one or just let it go. If I should send her another one, what should be the tone of the message?

Well I also have feelings for her, but I agree it does sound bad lol. Yeah I know. Before, in my early 20's, I didn't care when relationships went sour, because I always thought "I'm still young, I'll find another one" Something about turning 30 soon though makes me think "Oh my god, I am...

Yeah I want to, but at the same time I want her back. The thing is, right now I'm going through some big career changes and any time there's changes, there is stress. It would be nice to have her there especially during this time. Another factor is the fact that I'm approaching 30. I almost...