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    Future Talk. She said this convo is over..

    Why the F*ck would you initiate a marriage talk with a woman? That makes you sound very insecure and hence takes away your very essence as a man. Soon enough the woman will ask..."So what are we?" Then, you can take the convo anywhere you want it, but not before. This is a wrong move in many...
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    Should I marry her?

    I admit...those are some major pros...heck...beauty and brains and fun in one package. You don't have to marry this chick though. If she's madly in love with you as you claim she can still be a GF. Also...this forum may not be the best source for advice whether you should marry a woman...
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    Should I marry her?

    Just a quick joke I heard today that illustrates this: A husband asks his wife: "Honey, what would you like for Christmas" And she answers: "I want a divorce." The husband fidgets and scratches his head and says: "I wan't planning on spending THAT much" :-)
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    Should I marry her?

    That's fair Samspade. I feel that way about my marriage as well and generally I am very content...but something about American legal system where a guy can get screwed royally if he gets a divorce that really concerns me. The question I have is: Is it that you've felt stronger and more at...
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    Should I marry her?

    I have been married for 11 years CrossRoader. My wife is religious, I am an atheist. She goes to church. I don't. All our relatives are religious, but very mild ones...not nutcases. This, if anything, makes them kinder to each other. My marriage has worked great and I am overall very...
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    Should a bride be commended for selling her $12K dress to recoup the cash?

    I commend a woman like that as she has quite a bit of common sense and I don't see the hurt in trying to recoup thousands of dollars on an item that 80 % of women won't fit any longer 5 years into marriage :-) I find from experience that the wedding dress is a bit of hallowed ground for most of...
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    I'm at an all time low.

    Amante...that is truly inspiring and you have my respect. Scars...don't get a job. Start your own business...something that no one can take away from you. You could then NEVER be fired by anyone.
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    Hatred for AFCs

    Personally...I am OK with the fact there are many AFCs there because it makes the rest stand out more. Of course, at times, it is hard to tolerate the AFC through all the snivelling, groveling, supplication they do. If we didn't get repelled by such features it would mean we would be AFCs...
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    Would you become more attentive of your wife if she cheated in a torrid love affair?

    If my wife cheated she would be out of the door the next second. And I maybe exagerate...I probably mean...a mili-second. That's just how quickly I would make the decision. I wouldn't even have an argument about it. Upon finding out, one of us would start packing IMMEDIATELY...I would do the...
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    Wife screws our only vacation in years with cheating

    The problem with continuing on the same path is that you will never have her respect. Women don't respect a man who lets them cheat. Take the pain now and cut her loose instead of staying miserable for the next 20, 30 something years. Not that you have much of a future with her anyways...
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    I find people who use the term "found happiness" pathetic

    A little off topic...but I find "finding happiness" in general a bit ridiculous...regardless with the help of someone else or not. I can count with my fingers how many times I have truly, truly happy. The idea that man is born to be happy has caused more tears, suffering, and pain, and ill...
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    Tom Leykis' rules

    Great. Just laminate them and pull them out as needed...in front of the girl. This is not math or geometry...but human behavior. How about you use your god given observation skills and THINK. This is the problem with rules...you trip all over yourself following them. These are so...
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    Chick im seeing BF just sent me a message on Facebook... HELP!

    First of all, it was a very desperate move in the part of the boyfriend to contact you...you must understand this for what it is, this must be because he is suffering under the pangs of jealousy and he must really care for her. Care for a woman who is not worthy of such care. Now you could be...
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    allow me to be honest for a minute

    Hey Backbreaker, Number 1: It seems to me you need a big goal and to think bigger. What you are experiencing is the plateau after you have reached a goal. The worst thing that can happen to us is to reach our goals. You need an all absorbing goal that can focus your attention so that...
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    Met a 'Nice Girl'...Losing Myself

    Tell her so? Look...all this "If you think things are moving too fast tell her so" it's terribly unimaginative. Come on, you can be more subtle than that. Don't be a bore. Speaking plainly is not the language of seduction...I never get all this "talk to her", "Tell her" advice...
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    Danton's Journal of Weight Training

    April 14, 2011 Workout Bench Press 155 x 5 155 x 5 155 x 5 (PR) Chinups: BW x 4 BW x 2.5 Grip Work: 38 Time Closes (Right Hand) 34 Times Closed (Left Hand Ball Squeeze 25 Times - Both Hands Great and short workout. I have a speech to hold in front of...
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    What The F Can I Do?

    This is good advice. Remember the main components of fitness are: 1. Weight Lifting 2. Aerobic Exercise 3. Flexibility 4. Proper Nutrition 5. Rest and Recovery You have to have all these components in place. As a begginer I would suggest for you not to rush headlong into...
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    Danton's Journal of Weight Training

    April 9, 2011 Workout Squats 5x171 5x171 5x171 (PR) Military Press: 5x101 5x101 5x101 (PR) Barbell Rows: 5x94 5x94 5x94 (PR) Great workout. I supplemented this workout with some Grip exrcise at the end. The last set of squats was fairly hard and bar speed on last rep...
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    Danton's Journal of Weight Training

    I have decided to add Cardio a minimum of 3 days a week but will probably shoot for 5 sessions a week. I made this decision based on research from Robert McStuart books and also by reading the post of Warboss Alex. Is the guy even around anymore? My current body fat is about 18% which is...
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    Danton's Journal of Weight Training

    April 6th, 2011 Workout Squats 5x170 5x170 5x170 (PR) Bench Press: 5x152 5x152 5x152 (PR) Trap Bar DeadLifts: 5x200 (PR) Great workout. Squats last set was hard and last 2 reps the bar moved up slowly. Will only go up by 1 Lb next time to get the next PR however laughable this small...
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