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  1. J

    bar staff

    man - that was one cool guy in those westerns. I think I'll get my horse and go elsewhere.
  2. J

    bar staff

    Thanks guys. I'm just annoyed with myself in getting ratty at the bar - it was my friends birthday and I think I should have handled myself better.
  3. J

    bar staff

    Hi, was in my local bar last Friday and having a good time. I went to the bar and waited as the barmaid served various people. Then I guy who had just turned up at the bar got served before me as did two others. When the barmaid eventually served me I made a comment about having to wait and...
  4. J

    What do you think?

    got a text tonight saying, she thought me as a friend, Bad news,,, feel down, must be ugly. If only she knew, I'm an intelligent fun guy and likes a drink and am fairly good looking. Have to work on my game.
  5. J

    What do you think?

    Hi Scaramouche, always appreciate your input, and nice one Sayno - get your drift. Let's face it first dates are always difficult and nobody is perfect. I appreciate your input.
  6. J

    What do you think?

    Thanks Guys, I thought it a bit strange on a first date, so didn't think to react. Thinking about it, on another date, the women mentioned something about " did you know on my last date the guy asked whether I had sexy underwear on?" and I took it that she was horrified. I failed on that one...
  7. J

    What do you think?

    Thanks Espi. Sounds like she played the game that I should have done.
  8. J

    Rejected after first date kiss close

    sounds like my recent experiences!
  9. J

    What do you think?

    Hi Guys, Been doing the internet dating recently and had a date on Friday. We arrived at 18:30 hrs (she suggested meeting for a drink) and I ordered two glasses of wine - one for her and one for me. The meeting went well (I thought) and we engaged in good conversations, I thought she was...
  10. J

    Inspiration

    Thanks to everyone. Scara... you make me laugh in a good way, you're a great guy - I'm fine, sounding off helps. Tried the internet dating lark with lots of responses. Typical profile: Wanting a guy who can sweep them off their feet, own horses, well read... you know what I'm saying, Mr...
  11. J

    Inspiration

    Hi everyone, I work from home and have got into a rut. Anyone like me who stays in of an evening with a bottle of wine and DVD/tv can't be bothered to make the effort. Too tired with heavy work pressures and lack of money- lame excuse I know. I see so many people near me live alone, young and...
  12. J

    bullies at bars

    Hello Scaramouche, Thanks for your nice comments - appreciated greatly. However I haven't posted in years, the above responses are from a post I start a few years ago. I'm still here lurking in the shadows but no news to post (on my love life) due to dating advice fatigue and I have been...
  13. J

    Fights

    Dude, I read your post with interest and understand your feelings. I'm a fairly big guy 6ft 3" a little over weight, fairly attractive. I have red hair and when at school I used to get bullied, until one day they saw another side of me - I attacked my bullies and never got bullied again...
  14. J

    Internet dating - no response

    Some good points made my friends- all of them. I need to get out more :-) Cheers, Jez
  15. J

    Internet dating - no response

    Mr Ruckus, I wouldn't be so Mr smarty pants - it's easy to be critical. You don't know whether you will still be here in many years to come!. It might come back to haunt you those comments :-)
  16. J

    Best male actors

    I pretty much agree with all the above. Women actors? ....... Glen close?
  17. J

    Internet dating - no response

    I know what you are saying but there is a balance. I don't think there is anything wrong in showing you are interested. I also know that women are nervous of weirdos and stalkers, therefore I suggested that she let me know when she is ready to talk. Not that she should call me when she is ready...
  18. J

    Best male actors

    also Anthony Hopkins- Elephant Man, Magic etc. another excellent actor.A lot of you american guys maybe haven't checked out his early work - its brilliant
  19. J

    Best male actors

    yes some vey good actors there. s.jackson is brill
  20. J

    Internet dating - no response

    well I can't say I played it like a desperate chump. I think I played it right- made some email banter and then asked for her number. I got this and then no reply. I have some thoughts that maybe some of the profiles work for the company. But I think its a waste of money really. However my...
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