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    Self-control in intimacy and attachment

    An idea I read earlier in a masturbation context, which caused me to think of it's deeper applications in other areas: Throughout my experience with abstinence from masturbation, I tried to think of not craving the need to beat off -- by mentally eliminating the need for a physical rush of...
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    Article: The New Dating Game (weeklystandard)

    Well written and researched, and quite relevant. http://weeklystandard.com/print/articles/new-dating-game?page=12
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    Inner game - rock climber's perspective

    Here's a different perspective on inner game for you guys. We discuss our interaction and dealings with women here, but these concepts can really apply to any context you choose to explore. About three years ago I took up rock climbing. It was a very spur of the moment thing which has...
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    Article: The Death of Macho

    Not for ADHD inclined, but very interesting read: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/art/2009/06/18/the_death_of_macho/ There's a related article as well, written by a woman: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2009/06/19/good_riddance?page=0,0 She reaches a suprising conclusion: Discuss.
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    FB situation

    Hey guys, I've been lurking for a while on this forum, and had learned many a good thing concerning women. I'm currently working on acting out on good advice here and completely dropping the AFC mindset. So far the results are good, considering a prior relationship with a BPD left me in...
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