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    How to deal with her ex-boyfriends and guy friends

    So many people write here what to do if she already has a bf, the answer is next. She already has a LTR, she is not available, even if she breaks up you will be used as a booster for her self-esteem and then she will jump to the next guy. So, if the woman has just come out of an LTR, even if...
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    Flirting, jealousy and you !!!!!

    Another thing I want to add is that if she is going out with another guy as well as you, you cant stop her doing this. You can either get out or make her choose you. If you are not very interested in her then drop the case. If you are very interested in her, then become a challenge, let her...
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    How to deal with her ex-boyfriends and guy friends

    Hi, We all admit it, we dont want other guys near our women. So, what to do with it. Its a free country and she is a free woman. You can't force her to quit meeting them but you can definitely try to make her agree to do it. So, first of all never involve any of her guy friends in any of your...
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    AD, Red-XL what are your formulas?

    Hi, What I meant by listening to her is to ask her clarification questions about her problem, and how she is gonna deal with it, appreciating her for her efforts etc. and then either change the topic or move away from her. You are not the shoulder to cry on, you are being a good listener. How...
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    AD, Red-XL what are your formulas?

    Hi, Since AD is not here any more I would like to ask other masters to reply on this. Here AD said that women wants a man who can be there for her at time of trouble, it means that you should not be a chump always available when she needs a ride or has to go shopping, being a busy man you dont...
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    Flirting, jealousy and you !!!!!

    Another situation that might happen is that she talks about other guys she in her life or she is dating. Whether she does it before you ask her out or on a date, this is a disrespect. You should immediately change the topic. By doing it several time she will know that you want respect and also...
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    Flirting, jealousy and you !!!!!

    Hi Fellow Don Juans, The female species never stop testing our limits and one of the way is to test our jealousy and possessiveness. There are three scenarios to be considered. 1) You have an eye on her-- You have started talking to this girl and flirting with her (be in class, work or any...
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    College students - Wanna be surrounded by the ladies?

    Has any one tried Yoga classes. Lots of girls there but I dont know what is the ratio of girls and guys in there. You dont wanna be the only guy in the class. Other classes are anything to deal with arts, new age and languages, astrology etc. Gaming clubs are good too. IQ
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    Wanna know a quick, easy, fun way to get in some panties?

    Hi, Doesnt talking about sex make you look desperate in her eyes. IQ
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    Kill that desperation!

    Hi, Another question is should we talk to her about her sexual preferences, what would she do to seduce her dream men, her top favourite sexual positions, talking to her about other's sex life (not our sex life), is it a good idea to do or just to keep a mystery on this topic and just make your...
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    Kill that desperation!

    Hi, I have one more question for Pook. During the conversation, should a guy ask questions about her emotions, feelings, her relationships, what she looks for in a guy, her fantasies, etc and try to elicit her core values. If you are living the role of an ideal man, the real man dont talk...
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    Kill that desperation!

    Pook, I absolutely agree with you on the listening part. Problem is that if you show that you are a good listener and remember every little detail about her she will think you are totally focused on her and as soon as your attention divert to someone else she may try to get rid of you as you...
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    Kill that desperation!

    Hi, I have to point out some other ways a woman can use your attention. She might me attracted to you but is unavailable, have a boyfriend, moving soon somewhere else, or you are not her type, these cases are most often waste of your time. Never take these cases seriously. Because, they are not...
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    Kill that desperation!

    I have read the article on conversing for maximum attraction. I don't agree with saying too much me too. I think you should have a strong individuality and no two person agree on everything and are totally similar. So, saying me too sometimes is a good thing, otherwise she may start liking you...
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    Kill that desperation!

    Hi Pook, This super-confident guy approach seems to be a real good approach for introvert people. You dont need women, they need you. And the best way to show you want them is to ask them out soon. If you dont ask them out soon, she might think that you are just friends, or may be you are not...
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    Kill that desperation!

    Hi, I have a question for pook. Like you said, you talk to a girl about yourself, but if you take quite long to ask her out she might think you are not interested in her romantically. So, should you show sexual interest, teasing etc. during your convo with her. Also, by seeing you everyday...
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    Cosmo magazine

    Hi All, What I have found out is that most of the girls buy cosmo magazines and its full of tips and tricks to play with the guy minds like to play hard to get, how to get him to commit or how to dump him etc. Well, the girl with really high interest in you should not play any of these games...
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    Biggest turn offs

    Biggest turn offs to any girl are: 1) Desperation 2) Neediness 3) Pushiness 4) Supplication 5) Too much niceness, politeness, agreeness. How would you avoid each of these cases in your dealings with girls. Give your input IQ
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    Does she has a low interest in you if she tells you about her guy friend

    Well, Its ok you change the topic and dont talk about her friend. But isn't it normal to have guy friends and go out with. Like I have female friends to go out with and I can mention about them to the girl I am attracted to ( They are my friends). Also, what do you think if the girl you are...
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    Does she has a low interest in you if she tells you about her guy friend

    Hi, What do you guys think if the girl you are attracted to and talked to, ever mention her guy friend and her eagerness to see him or go out with him. Is it a sign of disinterest if she mentions her guy friend to you. (Actually say that he is my friend and going to see him on the vacation and...
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