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    Feedback Wanted - She's changing

    Hi guys, I'm going to simply type my situation the best way I can describe it, and then you guys can attempt to tell me what's the best plan of action. Let me preface my post by saying that I'm posting because this girl is beginning to change and I'm wondering if I might have caused it. So...
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    No Contact - Day 31

    I've been NC with my ex for six come the start of June. Let me tell you, it gets easier. I'm really not sure if it works or not, but I know it has helped me overcome her almost completely. I say almost because I still miss her from time to time, but it's not her specifically. This girl taught me...
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    Gaji attempt (will not fail) .. how am I doing?

    I'm doing it to get over her, and so I don't get attached. I would have been okay with a relationship except she didn't want it. I get criticized for getting with other girls, yet she knows I only wanted her. I offered her everything one day, and was told not to wait for her. I'm not waiting for...
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    Gaji attempt (will not fail) .. how am I doing?

    So this girl I was hooking up with for about 9 months .. we break it off. Today is 1 day and 3 weeks after the last time I've said anything to her. It's the longest I've gone without acknowledging her existence since we started hooking up. I'm getting over her more and more each day, even on day...
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    This goes against everything but...

    Thanks for that. She tells me she is changing, but I still see the same girl I've been with thus far. It's just the fact that we're so alike and compatible that I don't see the point of trying with other girls when I don't get any satisfaction out of it. I agree partially because my parents...
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    This goes against everything but...

    Alright so I think I've made up my mind. This situation has been escalating for the past few months and well, I'm truly happy with it. For once I think I found a girl who is actually different. I know, I know; I sound like every other guy on here who think they've found "the one." I'll walk you...
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    How did I handle this?

    She decided not to reply. I'm not going to initiate contact first because she screwed up by not giving me an answer when I proposed the idea of going out. I mean I told her exactly what was going to happen and she was still "unsure." I didn't confirm because, like I said, I wanted to see what...
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    How did I handle this?

    If you read my last post, I've been seeing H for 9 months. We're not together. I told her I was taking her out two days before I was actually taking her out. The day comes along and I text her when I wake up to confirm. Eventually it works out and I see her. Fast foward to present time. The...
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    My feelings and emotions confuse me ...

    Here's the situation ... There's two different plates I'm going hooking up with. The first one, let's call her H, I've been with for the past 9 months. I took her virginity 6 months into the 9 months and haven't had sex since because she said the month after that was her worst experience ever...
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    I did NOT just get LJBF -- wtf is this?

    1) we aren't in a relationship, we've just been hooking-up for 8 months 2) we don't have sex - she is afraid of being prego (yes I took her virginity) 3) we talk a lot, but go to different colleges so it is difficult, but we visit each other 4) I introduce her as my friend because she...
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    I did NOT just get LJBF -- wtf is this?

    Another thing ... she specifically said she doesn't feel safe ... like she's "always on edge." I took this as a plus for me keeping her off balance, but the fact she brought it up makes me think twice. Ideas? I'm guessing that I'm overdoing C&F and need to be a little nicer/more validating? Ideas?
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    I did NOT just get LJBF -- wtf is this?

    We playfully reject each other all the time, so Idk about that one. I see where you're coming from, but our relationship is more playful than most so it might not be completely true. Yeah, I actually just thought about that after I went to bed. I'm never going to do it again now. It's...
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    I did NOT just get LJBF -- wtf is this?

    This LJBF crap seriously did not just happen. When I explain the situation you'll understand why I'm so confused and figure I must be understanding something wrong, which is what I hope someone can clear up for me. So this girl I've been seeing for 8 months hits me up the other day. She is...
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    I Ever Want This To Happen Again.

    This thread is exactly the reason why I'm unsure whether or not to introduce my younger brother to this site. People over think and over analyze everything once they learn about the game. Pretend you were a normal person who could have normal conversations with normal people. Would you have...
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    Response to "get it in"

    K here we go. Think about the situation like this. You're flirting with this bangin' girl and someone comes up and says "yeahhh blah blah get it in ..!" BUT you've already banged her countless times. You've sent her into an orgasming ecstasy more times than you can remember. YOUR d!ck/fingers...
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    Parents being douchebag's

    I'm going to try not to sound like your parents here. First, they are right to an extent. In high school, the only thing that really matters is grades. Sure you want to have fun and all, but high school is such bullsh*t that it doesn't really matter anyway. You say you have 85 averages. Why not...
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    2 Strike Rule/Actually Busy

    Exactly what I was looking for, thanks man.
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    2 Strike Rule/Actually Busy

    Just a thought here ... maybe some opinions would help me out. I understand the purpose of the 2 strike rule, and I understand there are exceptions because she might actually be busy and not flaking. How about a situation where you've been hooking up for months ... over 6. How does the rule...
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    Do Girls hate players

    Ask yourself these two questions ... Do girls ever know what they really want? Uh no ... the complain about a**holes and guys f*cking them over yet what kind of men do they keep returning to? A**holes. Does it even matter? Girls are not logical and will not respond logically to situations...
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    Oneitis ... this is a problem

    I honestly got chills when I read that because I feel like it's exactly right. Me and Sally tell each other "I love you," and I feel like I really do. It hurts to admit this, because I feel like I'm battling my newly-trained self, but I would be okay spending the rest of my life with her. She is...
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