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I've got this girl (well, she's 28) who comes into my place of work as a customer. We get along well, I can tell she's into me. After a million years of being a wuss, I'm finally ready to get her out somewhere. Problem is, I'm not working much and haven't seen her for a month or so. I...

Hi guys. I have a longer story for you that I'll try to keep short. Basically it's about me, my friend George (26) and his now-ex-girlfriend Randee (23) (good fake names, huh?). I've known George for maybe five years, we were at one point what I'd consider best friends. We were never really...

Hey guys, haven't been here in a while. A little situation set off my brain in a funny direction today. This girl came into my work that comes in maybe once a week. We have great rapport, I'm pretty sure she's just sitting there wishing I'd ask her out. But every time we talk and I get the...

OK so I go to the bar tonight and FINALLY pick a chick up... we go back to her place and she busts out her guitar and starts with the singer-songwriter stuff... it's actually not bad, I'm impressed with it. We start making out on her bed. I'm pretty psyched, it's been a while since I've...

OK guys, I'm in foreign territory here. I need serious advice. For those who don't know me, I'm a 32 year old guy who only recently really started trying out the DJ thing. I'd only had sex with two women and dated maybe three until I was 30. Since then things have really improved. A...

Yep, that's what she said. I'm at the bar the other night and bump into this girl I've known as a customer at my store for years. Let's call her Jamie, 25, gorgeous, dark skin, big eyes, great dimples. Sarcastic as all heck, smart. I've flirted with her in the store, sorta (as far as I...

I'm sitting here with a girl's phone # in my hand, and I can't call her. This is f*cked UP. This is a girl that I've known for a while, it's obvious we have a connection. The other night after a party the cab dropped her off and she pretty much asked me "out". I told her to give me her...

Hey guys, kinda bored, and this forum is slow... so I'd throw in a situation and see what you come up with. I'm meeting a girl for drinks tomorrow (tonight) and am wondering how to go about it. I've known her for a few years. She was a roommate of a couple female friends of mine. Very...

OK, so the last two times I've been to this club one of the bartenders (a late 20=something girl, cute) has given me shots. Once was late in the night. I ordered a double-something, she just kind of threw down a Jag and gave it to me. Tonight, I got there earlier, I order a...

I know this question is a little wierd for a board like this but... ...how do you make an apartment that kind of smells like food that you've cooked (and food from the garbage)... and maybe a little like "guy" as a few girls have noted... ...how do you de-stinkify the place? I don't...

For those of you that don't know, I'm a 32 year old guy that only started turning around his sexual life maybe a couple of years ago. I'm maybe 25-50% better than I was at that time. Up until age 30 I'd had sex with two women (one my first girlfriend) and fooled around (petting) with maybe ten...

Heh, can't believe that's my title. But the spirit is the same. I'm wondering if you guys can help me with some music I can play when the babes come over to my place for the first few times... i.e. something that's comfortable and sexy but doesn't scream "HE'S GONNA KISS YOU NOW!"...

OK, I wanted to ask about Gunwitch and that kind of thing. Yeah, I know there's a lot of threads out there, but they rarely actually discuss it and just kind of circle around. What is this "sexual state" that they are talking about? One site I saw said to try and get the feeling that you...

OK, after a year and a bit of some improvement from being a hardcore AFC for 30 years... I met an LTR-worthy girl and proceeded to screw it up after a couple of months. Now I'm feeling a little down. All the momentum and energy I had while dating this girl (the confidence level was up, so I...

LOL, yeah... my mom picks at stuff like this too, and I'm 32. It's pretty funny... anytime I get new clothes or cut my hair in a "hip" style and she doesn't like it, it means that I KNOW the girls out there will like it. As for dresssing "young"... it really depends on what kind of things...

OK... so I was at the bar the other night. I was there with a couple of co-workers, one of whom had asked me to come along because it was one of her friends' birthdays and she wanted to get her laid with a "really nice guy"... who apparently is me. Anyhow, so I show up to the place, and this...

I have a question. WHY do you next someone? I mean, what is the POINT of doing it, long term? Are you trying to demonstrate something to the girl, hoping at some point that she will get back to you or you can take another shot later on when she realizes that you weren't so desperate in...

...but of course I never listened until now. 1) "Boyfriends mean nothing". By this she meant that even if a girl has a boyfriend that doesn't mean you should stay away. She said that most girls are dating a given guy just waiting for a better one to show up. 2) "Just get a girlfriend...

OK I really think I blew this one... but I wonder if you guys can help me out. Basically, a girl has stopped contact with me and I'm wondering whether I should continue talking to her or not. It's a semi-oneitis situation. She asked me out in my store around six weeks ago. Right away I...

I am in fresh territory and need some advice. Remember that I am still fairly AFC at this point and 32 years old. Here's the situation (cue "Parents Just Don't Understand"): Over the last month I have had four girls interested in me in various ways. HBblonde: a customer who I see maybe...