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    shoulder injury

    Hey y'all, I armwrestled a guy for about two minutes straight (and neither of us ever won) last Saturday while drinking. The next day, I noticed that my shoulder was kinda sore and my elbow also. On Monday, I went ahead to the gym anyway because the injury didn't seem that bad anymore. But I...
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    Wow, this girl needs to stfu

    she just keeps on making herself look worse http://www.mtv.com/overdrive/?id=1568788&vid=174407
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    i think i have a f*cked-up mind

    My (bad) experiences with the ladies seem to have really bruised my views of things. Even though I've got a few girls somewhat lined up atm, I'm constantly doubting myself. I try to tell myself that it doesn't even matter what happens on a date, but I still feel a good amount of involuntary...
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    Theoretical question

    I'm trying to plan a few things out in my head at the moment so here it is: If you go on an action date for the first date, does the second date therefore have to be an action date, too? I don't think a dinner date would be good for a second date. Movies in general are kinda lame early on...
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    quick question -- Voicemails

    Hey y'all, Should you ever leave a voicemail for a girl you #-closed but haven't actually gone on a date with yet? I know girls are really flaky and nervous about initiating phone calls. I already called this one chick once and didn't get an answer. When I try a second time, I was wondering...
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    bringing up boyfriends

    Following Pook's instructions, I have tried to minimize the amount of flirting and kino that I do with girls early on. Supposedly a real DJ should be so inherently sexual that those things are overkill. (Also, flirting is a tad bit girly and indirect.) So here's the quick question: If I'm...
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    #-close, right away or wait a bit?

    I guess there may be no hard-and-fast rule, but I was wondering what y'all's thoughts were on #-closes: If you meet a girl that you are reasonably sure you will see again fairly soon, should you still feel compelled to #-close on the first time you meet her? Or might it be good to wait 'til...
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    gym + pushups

    hey quick question If you're doing pushups on the days that you don't go to the gym, will that impair your muscles' ability to rest and repair in between gym visits? I've been doing 70 push-ups a day, and wondered it might be slowing my bench-pressing progress.
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    hotornot profiles

    Has anyone here had much success with hotornot? I can barely get any double matches on that damn website. If anyone on here has some good tips on how to make a good hotornot profile, I'd be curious to know what I'm doing wrong. (Or if no one has much success with it, I'll just assume that girls...
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    Kino Resistance

    Sometimes I'll seem to get pretty good IOIs, but then the moment I try kino, they seem to freak out. This isn't even hard-core kino either. I wouldn't claim to be a kino master yet (altho I've looked at the dicarlo escalation ladder), but I've had girls seem to flip when I just touch their arm...
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    dealing with verbal abuse

    This may be too complex a question to allow a simple answer, but nonetheless... How do you stop people from f*cking with you? Especially if you're in a group situation that you can't really get out of. I'm not a particularly unpopular person, but there were several people being serious...
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    quick question - Gunwitch

    can someone tell me who he is and give me a link to his writings?
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    General question

    There might not actually be one single answer for this, but I was wondering: If a girl is somewhat nervous around you (perhaps while you're going out with her for the first time), is that good, bad, or neither? I used to think it was good because it indicated that she recognized your high...
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    Hors and Prudes -- A thin line?

    A hor is an over-sexed, promiscuous, aggressive (essentially masculine) woman who is fairly easy to pick up (comparatively speaking) but just as easy to lose. Due to her extremely fickle nature, she will in all likelihood tire of you and soon look for another source of pleasure. A prude, in...
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    push-ups

    I can only do a maximum of about 35 in a row before my arms pretty much give out. If I wait a few minutes I can do more. Is there something wrong with me? I've always been bad at them so a few months ago I started just doing about 12 at a time then went to 20. Now I try to do 2-3 sets of 35...
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    Overfishing

    It seems that whenever you're in a small community of some sort (school, work, church, etc) and around a limited number of girls, you will eventually exhaust the possibilities a good bit. Then it gets to where you just keep trying to flirt with the same old girls (who have always given you weak...
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    Modes of Communication

    I would like to know if phones are really better (in all circumstances) than email and other text-based services. I've never particularly liked phones, and one of the girls I'm dealing with atm seems really shy. Wouldn't it be just as good to use email or w/e if she seems comfortable with it? Or...
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    unreturned call/email

    Hey guys, If you go out with a girl once and then get her number at the close of the date...then you call her several days later to schedule something else and don't hear back, should you: 1) leave another message explaining that you don't tolerate rudeness or 2) just blow her off in a...
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    kino question

    Hey, have y'all encountered any decent girls who seem to have trouble reciprocating kino? I just went out with this one girl, and everything seemed to go really well, except she wouldn't really reciprocate when I used kino. She even seemed to act a little weird when I did it (but not really...
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    Girl now available?

    Hey y'all, There's this girl that I met just a week or so ago. I pretty quickly took a liking to her, but it turns out she already had a boyfriend that she'd been going out with for a while. Anyway, she still seemed to be flirting with me somewhat and has continued to do so (last time I was...
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