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Thanks for putting that into perspective. You're right, the situation is resolving itself.

Dude. I used to be like this... And act like you are. It's not good and comes off as not masculine at all. Women lose interest quick and plop you in the friend category before you can blink. Be more elusive man. If she texts you, don't text her right away, give it some time... Say an...

I've always been a one woman at a time kind of guy but recently I decided that I want to date many women at a time. I was in and out of relationships for a while and the way I see it, I was wasting a lot of my time and not really seeing what was out there. At the present moment, I'm dating 2...

Never approach a woman being more worried about what she will think of you than what you will think of her.

I'm definitely not all about her at all. I have other dates with diff women lined up also. I was just questioning whether being alpha was enough in this particular scenario. I wasn't aware if there was a different angle in this kind of circumstance. Thank you for the input. You are...

Ok, so I saw a picture of this girl I used to hang out with regularly about 4 to5 years ago and she looked good. Somewhere along the line we went separate ways and I haven't talked to her much at all in 3-4 years. My problem is, when I was spending a lot of time with her I was definitely an...

It's amazing to think that I joined this forum years ago and that it's all finally starting to sink in now. It's like everything in my brain just clicked all at once and I have no fear. I finally am starting to "get it." Things I read here years ago that sounded absolutely crazy, make more...

First Date: Drinks or if I've talked to the person for a little bit and have been flirty, then I tend to lean toward an action date. Second Date: Coffee/Drinks (usually ends with a nice walk) or action date like Billiards or Bowling Third Date (If I can get there): Action Date I tend to...

Ok. I've read through the replies thus far and thought I would offer some more information. Thank you everyone. The last 4 women I have dated have all expressed interest in meeting up again. They verbally would ask me: "When am I going to see you again?" In my mind I was thinking this was...

Can someone give me some insight here? I'm not having very good luck with this. I've gone at the best 50/50 on first date flakes and I'm batting 100 on 3rd date flakes this year. Either I'm doing something wrong or women are actually that crazy. Either way, I can't put my finger on it. What...

I'm not liking how much sense all of you guys are making right now. I think what someone said about slowing down makes perfect sense. I just need to determine at what time to step it up because I don't want a pen pal or an activity buddy. I just want to make sure my intentions are clear...

Word. I should have just went to the bar anyway and got numbers there. I could have said something like "Well I'm still going, I'm busy Friday. If you want to take a break from your paper, you know where to find me" Thanks.

I'm trying the online dating thing. Messaged a chick with some funny stuff (basically teasing her) and she hits me back. I set up a date with the second message. She messages me the day of the date and says "I can't make it tonight, I just got slammed with a 3 page paper due tomorrow...

You shouldn't worry about it being weird. What do you have to lose? (Them being your facebook friend) oh well... If you want to add them just do it. Send a message with it too. Like hey it's been a while saw you on the site thought I would see how you are doing, where you are at with life...

Ok guys. Here's the story... I've know this woman for a long time (10+ years) we started hanging out more frequently this past year because we realized we share many common interests. She's quiet, shy, reserved and doesn't drink but she's beautiful and can hold a great conversation with me...

Ok. Need some advice here gents. Short story. Went to party with cousin and friends. Taxi to cousins, slept in bed with my cousins really close friend after a night of drinking (no kissing, or anything sexual at all). Woke up in the morning intertwined and started giving her a message...

Ok. The quick story is I know these women from the gym. One is married whom I know through a friend and the other is single and is the married girl's friend. Anyway, they both stalked me out on the track at the gym the other day and I walked with them and talked for a while. I was mentioning...

Ok after 3 days of no contact... never called her back I got this facebook message today: "I want to apologies for cancelling on you! I honestly did have a great time with you. I think right now it's just to early for me to be going out on dates. My ex and I only broke up a month ago and I...

Ok. A couple of hours before date 3 I get this voicemail? "Hey its such and such... I'm really sorry to call... I'm sorry... I don't think I can go out tonight... I think I need to take some time for myself. I had a really good time with you and I definitely like you. I just think I need...

Second date synopsis, I took her to dinner and a movie and barely watched the movie. While driving her home I just drove my car down a side road, parked looked at her and started kissing her. She was all for it. We spent a lot of time talking in between hooking up and she asked me some...