Help: Dating multiple women

[the_m@n]

I've always been a one woman at a time kind of guy but recently I decided that I want to date many women at a time. I was in and out of relationships for a while and the way I see it, I was wasting a lot of my time and not really seeing what was out there.

At the present moment, I'm dating 2 women and setting up more dates with 2 others.

One of the women I've gone on multiple dates with and she slept over last night. As much as I enjoyed having her company and think she's a cool chick, I'm not sure how I feel about dating her exclusively yet.

I'm looking for some advice on how to handle this situation. The cool chick is also a very kind person and I wouldn't feel right about hurting her feelings but I also want to be selfish and keep her around.

How does one go about maintaining a casual relationship with sex while dating other women and have them all be ok with it? Simple or long answers would both help.

Thanks.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear m@n,
Affairs if left to progress with their own dynamic tend to resolve themselves!

 

[the_m@n]

Thanks for putting that into perspective. You're right, the situation is resolving itself.