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I never hold it against women when they don't want me. It only bothers me if they lead me on. And in this case she didn't. The reason I mentioned her judgment was due to other things that happened during the date which I didn't mention but I should have. She seemed materialistic and the way...

Thanks I appreciate. I'm sure this women is going to be a nightmare for whoever ends up with her. I don't take rejection seriously anymore. I don't get upset or hold it against them. Its probably due to their poor judgement to be able tell what kind of genuine person of substance I am. I...

I didn't take **** from her. I had a nonchalant slightly fun attitude and was just having fun. Every time she tried to put me on the spot I smirked and threw it back at her. Not in an angry way. But more in a playful don't really care kind of way.

So I got a text from her saying she didn't feel we were a match. She seemed quite happy and excited during the date. She must have thought about it later and decided I did not fit the grocery list. Oh well... I did learn quite a bit though...

Thanks for the feedback. This is more of a learning experience than anything else. Doubt this girl is LTR material. But we'll see... So I called a few days later to set up a date and left VM. Few hours later she txted saying she was with friends and couldn't pick up. And she didn't call back...

So I went out on a first date with a girl few days ago. Mid 20's attractive educated...etc. Overall I felt she was a little uptight. She seemed to remember every word that came out of my mouth, and sometimes later in the conversation she would question simple contradictions. Silly stuff...for...

Been there, done that... Set your boundaries early and set the tone of your relationship. I fail to understand a society where it's acceptable for your girlfriend to go out with other guys (old friends or not) and be passive about it. This was one of the main reason why I broke up with my ex...

Middle Eastern girls that grow up in the West are even more difficult to deal with. They bring in a whole new dimension of confusion and culture clash that tends to create individuals that are extremely confused with very low self-esteem.

You can't compare the Western mentality to the majority of the Eastern culture.

Ironically, one of her guy friends I was objecting to (who is married) ended up hitting on her after we broke up. Even more confirmation that one-on-one crap doesn't belong in healthy secure relationships. After we broke up she acknowledged that it was wrong on her part to hang out with her...

So we did break up months ago. Many reasons mostly due to different values and her being too comfortable with her male friends. It's been tough though. We had great chemistry and I do think about her a lot she still wants to get back together but I do know deep down that a future with her...

So we eventually broke up. She tried very hard come back and said was willing to work on things and compromise. I couldn't take her back. The fact that she was very defiant before made me realize that a compromise from her end would stem from the fear of losing me, not because she would...

My parents' biggest fear in life is me ending up wtih someone from a different ethnic background. I'm not looking to get married now and will eventually make up my own mind. However the parents are putting a lot of pressure on me and its getting stressful and frustrating. They are not happy...

I've been with my GF for a year. We get a long well and things are good most of the time. She has a few male friends that she has known for a few years. She goes out to dinner or drinks one-on-one sometimes with them. I've expressed displeasure about this and that I'm not happy about it...

Looks like the girl dodged a bullet but going for the other guy...You sir need to see a shrink ASAP.

Even if she's not a GF, I don't really want to sleep with someone I don't trust.

This is not a thread about getting a girl...it's about getting rid of a girl. I found out today a girl I have been sleeping with has been lying about many things. She is very untrustworthy and I need her gone. Exactly how do you distance girls and brush them away without having them go...

She already rejected you. She only wants your friendship.

Post some of your experiences on the results you got from withholding attention and being able to walk away. The more I mature the more I realize how important it is to refrain from smothering and having the ability to walk away when things turn sour or when there is no potential of things...

He's assuming I'm either "average" or ugly just because I don't need to dress up to get hot girls. In his case he probably needs to dress to impress to get hot chicks. Nothing really wrong with that if that's what it takes.