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    What every skinny guy should know...

    Re: This is the single best piece of advice to guys ever. Dude, congrats on getting the body. I should add that I wholeheartedly agree it will make an amazing difference in anyone's life. Especially if you're an uglier kind of guy, I think it's imperative to get in the best possible...
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    "He's Just Not That Into You"

    Chicks can try and buy into this, like they can try and buy into "The Rules", but ultimately, I think biology will prevail. There are reasons for the dynamic that's existed between human males and females over the millenia that no book will be able to overcome.
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    short bulking/cutting phases

    And they're chemically enhanced. Anyway, Spain, your program could work. We're all different, so the best way to judge a program is try it on yourself. I'm not convinced it would be the best way to go about it, but if "monotany" is really such a huge problem for you that it it's hindering...
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    What every skinny guy should know...

    7.5kg of what? Muscle? That is hugely doubtful. To gain weight that quickly you need to be eating a hell of a lot of calories (your workout program alone won't get you there, no matter how great it is). And if you're eating that many calories, you're going to put on fat. "Put on" fat, not...
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    My greatest downfall

    Mazda, I can relate to that. I used to feel that way a lot. You're certainly not alone, I'd say most guys feel that way at least in some situations. For me, it's now only when I'm around 9+s that I'll start feeling self-conscious, but it's really only a "mild nervousness" rather than anything...
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    dating nightmare

    There I spilled my guts and made an ass of myself, and told her that I was nervous not knowing whether she wanted to kiss me also or not... Mood killing stuff. Looking back, would you really expect a girl to melt into your arms after that exchange? Pretty unlikely. Anyway, put this one...
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    Tip - What to say on the cold approach!

    Well, it could work (so could "anything"), but you'd need, I think, pretty crackerjack delivery (big time confidence). But I doubt it would perform any better than simpler cold approaches. I'd use it sparingly, if at all (that is if I could ever get over how corny it sounds. Major, major corn.)
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    Someone Teach me How to Walk

    Yeah, it begins with the anxiety. No doubt this is the case with you, as you stated you have no trouble hanging around with your friends (a non-anxious environment for you). Omizzi, you are right, mind and body affect each other. (But why DO YOU HAVE TO SCREAM IT?) The awkward walk can...
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    "Avatar's 25 approaches in February Journal"

    Re: Re: Re: Question for Avatar and others Yo wigga (sorry! :D), you don't need a flashy car to pull off the car approach. (But a flashy car does help...immensely). I did some "car work" in my younger days driving an unmistakably "unflashy" car (not "embarrassing", just not...
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    Sure Fire Way To Get Women

    Perfect! (Yours?)
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    Religion over romance/relationships???

    I really don't see what all the fuss is about. Why is it so 'amazing' that a 'religious chick' would prefer someone from the same religion? It's just human nature to have a preference for people with similar interests to yourself, and as far 'interests' go, they don't get much bigger than...
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    Girls find me pretty but not sexy.....

    You sound like a bit of a metrosexual, both in appearance and in attitude. Nothing wrong with that, if that's who you want to be. But, imo, metrosexuals can never ellicit the sort of raw sexual desire that a more "manly" kind of man could. Are you the same "Matt Rogers" who posts on HG?
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    Big dilemma... need some help...

    Dude, if you're serious -- with what you said, on a site like this, it does seem weird -- then I strongly advise you not to say that. If she does like you, there are far better ways of finding out. If doesn't like you (in that sort of way), proclaiming your affection is a complete disaster...
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    Why Should I Give You My Number ? She Says

    LOL! "Ridiculous"? "Childish behavior"? What a fricking weirdo! Lots of things you could have said to that. Even just plain laughed (like I reckon I would have). With an attitude like that, I'd pleased to not be going out with her. Probably some feminist bytch. Who knows. Who...
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    so all MIDDLE CLASS and BLUE COLLARS are AFCs?

    Delta, i am NOT arguing that middle class blue collars can't get hot chicks. I could have sworn I read differently, but maybe I misunderstood. If this is your position, then there is no disagreement. we're mixing metaphors as it were. i do say that women are essentially gold diggers...
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    Strip clubs / brothels / massge parlours increases confidence?

    Some guys are simply completely intimidated by beautiful women. To the extent that strip clubs help alleviate these feelings of intimidation, they are useful. If this applies to you [reader], you'll certainly know it. Simple as that. No one ever said you're going to become a DJ just by...
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    Anti-Dump's Machine (Part I: Interest Level)

    Most of this thread is nothing but high octane BS. Good lord, do some people get carried away themselves. Lol.
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    Fifteen Lessons

    Some very, very solid info in there. Okay, as prose, it falls short of what it tries to be, but the message is golden.
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    Strip clubs / brothels / massge parlours increases confidence?

    For strippers, "their job" is selling themselves to you. If you don't buy, you don't pay. (As for waiters, paying the menu price was considered fulfulling my legal contractual obligation the last time I checked; tips are a bonus, which I'll decide on. Just my view; everyone else is freem...
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    Stuck In A Rut

    No way Franky! I plan to be at my absolute DJ peak when I get to your age (which is still a few years away, but if how quickly time passed the last few years is any indication, I'll be there sooner than I think). You haven't even one foot in the car to drive to the cemetary, let alone one in...
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