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My observation on dance classes is that in beginner classes men outnumber women and women are not that attractive. Do you think that many attractive HBs in their 20s - late 20s have had no occasion to learn the basics of dancing? Your observation holds true for advanced classes and classes...

So you found a perfect solution to the problem. Next lime you are looking for women, workout at the gym first... and don't forget to put pen and paper in your change bag to note their number.

I've read your posts and I think that your problem is that you may actually be a lot more attractive than what you think. If this is true, you got exactly the wrong advices here, because this forum is not designed for that problem. Being "too attractive" does not look like it should be a...

You are right: I tend to see problems with every solution. ;) BUT, it is not as bad as it seems: I am able to recognise a nice woman than I see one! The problem is: Germany IS different. Take for example the classical US advice: bookstores. I don't know how it is in the US, I suppose...

It may sound like a silly question, but how do you find bars catering to "the 35+ singles crowd"? Are there guides for such things? What are the keywords to look for? Where I live, I can easily find bars for "the 20+ crowd", for "a complete mix from 15 to 80" (a local specialty) and for "the...

It is free, but it does not have many members from Germany (where I live). Maybe I should have told that I tried internet dating on German sites, so this is not what I am asking for here.

OK. Maybe I should request advice from European (or better: German) DJs only, because the situation here appears different than it is in America. As I said, I checked bookshops and was very disappointed (mainly men and old couples there). We don't have the equivalent of coffee shops. We have...

I think my suggestion of gaming the friend a little bit has been misunderstood again. I also think that Playboi0323 and dirtymexican are right: DJs may not give good relationship advice. Well, I have been married 15 years and survived a few crises myself. Newman said: "So every time she...

I haven't tried "after work happy hour joints". I am not sure we have those here. I suppose you mean some sort of reduced price bars, right? I tried book stores and coffee houses and found them very, very disappointing. We don't have night clubs that cater to older crowds.

Maybe I should have explained myself better. It is simple psychology really. She thinks her friend is important, you go with the flow and be nice to the friend. The trick is: if you are extra nice, she will get jealous. Friend destroyed. Problem solved. By being nice, I meant game the...

Mature minded 20 years old would be perfect. Too perfect to be true, maybe. You are making me jealous. :D

I have been lurking here for a while, actually. I have read the DJ bible and the boot camp (BTW, the link is dead). My problem is quite simple, really. I can approach women, do a bit of ****y & funny conversation with them, etc... However, I find that the women I meet are either: -pretty...

Let me see... you could: -go out with your wife and her friend and be very nice to her friend. -do the same, but with a pal and have the two of you be very nice to her friend. That should solve your problem.

Hi! I wonder if some of our "more mature" members have good tips on places to meet women in my age bracket. Of course, I can try the next mall or subscribing to a yoga course ;) but maybe there is something better I did not think about. FWIW, I live in Europe (Germany) and most clubs...