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Azanon, I want to first say that I appreciate your response. I know these types of threads are common, and it's typical to get trollish type responses. Thanks I haven't been diagnosed, but I think I may have it. Some times I go fairly quick - other times it's a little longer. It's never for...

I have read several threads here, and I think I may be getting my priorities confused on maintaining ejaculatory control. I've read that some guys (actually a LOT of guys) masturbate prior to sex because going at it with the first load is a bad idea (waiting for the 2nd erection) I've also...

Sinistar gave some really good advice. My story. A few years back this girl tried that on me. We didn't go together but according to everyone else we did. She told me about this guy friend that she met at the club and he was real cool. I met him and all and he basically got no play. Well...

Just so all the posters are clear, the person that isn't getting the orgasm is the guy....not the girl. Wasn't sure if this was clear or not. Are we saying that excessive masturbation works both ways for both sexes?

Sorry I didn't clarify. It was him who didn't orgasm, not her. He said that she's come a few times. He hasn't come once yet with her. I thought that was odd. Sorry for the confusion.

I was talking to a friend of mine, and he finally got some from this girl he had been digging. He said that he's been hitting it on the regular...but that he's not coming. I was surprised by this because this hasn't been my experience. He was kind of salty about this. Is this a problem...

Solace, thanks for #2 and #3. I've heard of #3 and #2 was something truly new to hear. Kudos. About #1, I've tried that, but as soon as I'm in there again, I instantly resume at the near climax that I was at before. One or two pumps and it's over. Should I be really waiting a while before I...

No condom. Been a long time since I had one. Honestly, there was any significant difference when I did use one. I'd like to think I'm relaxed, but I guess I'm not. I'm always eager to get it going...the talking and foreplay etc. Once it's time to go in, my heart is already beating fast. Should...

First, this isn't an annoying thread bump. I am just now getting my internet back. About the aerobic exercise - maybe I didn't posit my problem well. That kind of stamina is okay for me. I'm talking about the stamina in pacing my ejaculation. My heart beats very fast and I think this adds...

Re: positions..... Thanks cave dweller. Two hours seems long, and I wish I could get that kind of stamina. I'm almost thinking mine is mostly mental. How do you avoid bringing on an early orgasm? Is it solely by changing the positions?

First, thanks for the comments. The slow breathing is kind of hard for me to master...especially when your heart is beating fast. I just cannot perceive breathing slow while having sex...which often isn't a slow moving experience. I don't quite get how to implement this. I almost think that...

First, if this should be in the Health Forum I understand why it may be moved. Although this is supposed to be the Mature forum, I've tried to not be too explicit or graphic in hopes to respect the crowd here and get some genuine insight. Onto the story. I've been working on resolving my PE...

Okay here's the update. I'm going to rush through to make this short. I went over to see her one day that we were talking crap to each other. We only had a few minutes, but it was cool. I gave her my number and she's supposed to call me. We chat casually via msgr at work which is cool...

I started a thread a little while ago about this chick at the job that I was interested in. Most of the guys said to move on. Some said to go for it. I went for it. It worked...well so far. Here's what happened. She emailed me and asked me if I was going to this local event, that I had no...

Yeah. I tried to do something different. Some advised not to pursue. Some said to go for it. I opted to try, and that's how I chose to do it. Seeing as she has responded I was thinking that since I committed to trying, that I may as well go for the gusto, and this is where I was hoping to get...

Come on guys I guess this will be my last request for assistance. Otherwise this thread will have to see its untimely death. I would like to respond, and I was hoping to get some feedback.

No comments? Come on guys...

Okay, against some of you guys advocated against it - some said go for it. Well I did it last week Friday. I had a girl take it over to her. I sent her a card and flower. It was pretty cool, I think. I thanked her for helping me, and I wanted to let her know that I found her very attractive...

Re: no.......... Damn fellas. So getting at women at your job is a no? There's two other chics in the building that I work at that expressed interest in me....not to me directly, but I found out through the grapevine. May I ask why?

Thanks for the perception. I guess I had some things wrong. Glad I waited. I got her number off our intranet. I had to call her once last week for a work related issue and I had to call her once on yesterday to leave a message and again to arrange for me to come over there, so she didn't give it...