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One comment: There seems to be the sentiment that being an attention ***** is the woman's fault. Not so. It's your fault for giving her all the attention. Remember guys, don't get mad at women for mistreating you, get mad at yourself for allowing it to happen.

You know, I think hitting your car with a baseball bat is a bad sign for interest level, but I could be wrong. In all seriousness, move on.

Instead of just saying "Hey, I'm tired of talking to you, really, shut up." Try saying "Hey, I gotta go, for (whatever). . . talk to you later." If she begs to stay on the phone just tell her you really have to go and hang up. This way, you're not directly saying you don't want to talk to her...

"She called me a few nights ago and I told her that I only like thin girls. This hurt her but dispite it she still calls." You shouldn't feel bad about not liking thin girls, but you SHOULD feel bad about rudely telling a girl that likes you that "you only like thin girls." Really man, that's...

If they're interest level is high enough, they'll keep going out with you regardless of whether you're seeing other women. The best way is to just be open about the fact that you see other women, but also say that you'd like settle down one day. Make her want to be the one to settle you down...

Unless you're a very advanced DJ, I think it's much easier to pick-up anywhere but a club.

I personally think you're using this whole anxiety disorder thing as an excuse for the fact that the girl is completely rejecting you. That's ok though. Rejection is a part of the process. I'd just move on.

If bars/clubs make you nervous, you should just try and pick-up girls elsewhere. In fact, bars/clubs are probably the worst possible place to pick-up girls, unless you are very good looking and/or a master don juan.

I guess you CAN have a DJ attitude and be a virgin, but unless it's for religious reasons, I don't see why you'd want to be.

I think your best solution is just to forget about her and move on, but you probably don't want to hear that.

I think having girls you don't like obssesed with you is just a side effect of being a DJ.

This could be a classic case of overanalyzing and overreacting. She said you LOOK like her brother, not that you remind her of him, or act like him. There's also a difference between saying "You remind me of my brother" and "I see you as a brother." Plus, have you seen a picture of her brother...

Like Beethoven said, always discuss, never argue. There's no need to even get heated. Getting heated implies that you're trying to prove that you're right and they're wrong. Real DJ's have nothing to prove.

I think too many guys either assume that girls will spontaneously come up and meet them or just assume that you can only meet girls at bars, clubs etc. This is just not true. My advice to you is to ALWAYS be in a DJ mindset. In fact, you shouldn't be able to turn your DJ mindset on and off...

Well, here's what NOT to say: "Like you? I can't believe you're even asking that! You are SO great! I was hoping you would like me, not the other way around! WOW!" However, if you don't feel comfortable doing the C&F stuff, I think this is a good approach: After she asks you the question...