Have you guys ever met a girl with an anxiety disorder? A girl that was just absolutely , extremely shy?
Well, I have. The other nite I met her and then ran into her the next nite at a club her friends dragged her to. She was sitting by herself on a couch and I came up and started chatting it up a bit with her.
She would absolutely not dance at all. And even when her friends tried to literally pick her up and drag her onto the dance floor, she nearly broke out into a panic attack.
Finally, I got somewhere. I asked her what kind of dancing she did, and it turned out to be swing dancing. So we went outside the club and she taught me how to swing dance. which btw, is pretty fun. Then i told her I needed to teach her how to club dance.
I got her to loosen up, move her hips, showed her a few moves, and we were having a great time, laughing at each other and what have you. Then i went to teach her how to grind and she totally shut down and was like, "I can't have people in my bubble, i'm really bad about my bubble."
WTF mate? Well, i was cool with that and by the time this happened the club was closing. I walked back to her apt. with her friends and she walked right next to me while he friends walked ahead of us. we chatted a bit again, and i thought i was finally getting her out of her shell.
Well, today I call her to see what she's up to and if she wants to hang out and she responds with, "ummm i think i'm gonna go read..."
Gah, do you guys have any tips on cracking open this girl with an anxiety disorder? she's extremely beautiful, a definite 8-9, but definetely not like any other girl i've worked on...
Well, I have. The other nite I met her and then ran into her the next nite at a club her friends dragged her to. She was sitting by herself on a couch and I came up and started chatting it up a bit with her.
She would absolutely not dance at all. And even when her friends tried to literally pick her up and drag her onto the dance floor, she nearly broke out into a panic attack.
Finally, I got somewhere. I asked her what kind of dancing she did, and it turned out to be swing dancing. So we went outside the club and she taught me how to swing dance. which btw, is pretty fun. Then i told her I needed to teach her how to club dance.
I got her to loosen up, move her hips, showed her a few moves, and we were having a great time, laughing at each other and what have you. Then i went to teach her how to grind and she totally shut down and was like, "I can't have people in my bubble, i'm really bad about my bubble."
WTF mate? Well, i was cool with that and by the time this happened the club was closing. I walked back to her apt. with her friends and she walked right next to me while he friends walked ahead of us. we chatted a bit again, and i thought i was finally getting her out of her shell.
Well, today I call her to see what she's up to and if she wants to hang out and she responds with, "ummm i think i'm gonna go read..."
Gah, do you guys have any tips on cracking open this girl with an anxiety disorder? she's extremely beautiful, a definite 8-9, but definetely not like any other girl i've worked on...