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    Another run of the mill chick rant.

    What can I say, a lot of time women are crazy. They have baggage from the past , and so do we. They carry that baggage and make all of the men they meet deal with it. I personally hate when they play the hot/cold game. All you can do is either ride it out, usually ends in disaster, or walk...
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    Pregnancy scare/abortion

    Bad Situation I would have to say this is about the worst situation you can find yourself in. Just some insight, I was involved in something like this about 10 years ago. I must be honest, it sucked a bit at first, however looking back on it, it suck more now then it did then. Really...
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    Kryptonite

    Because when you play with Kryptonite bad things happen. We were chillin yesterday and she told me "we should stay friends, I would cheat on you, how can you not see that when I wind up in your bed and I'm seeing that guy" Now let me add, she is just as much a "player" as I am so there...
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    Kryptonite

    Slickster, you are so right. Slickster, You are so right. Although I have a follow up question. How do you ever really meet someone to be with if you don't risk oneitis. I mean, isn't that the point, at some point. Finding one cool chick to chill with. I mean, shagging a bunch of girls...
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    Kryptonite

    Hey fellas, seems like I need some help with a situation. I'm sure I told you all about kryptonite before. She's the one girl that continues to get under my skin, steals away my DJ powers and all that. Anyway, in the last week I hooked up with one girl that I had been pursueing for about 2...
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    Finally, a tip for you all.

    I just pulled this thing off and I can't believe how well it worked. So you know about that old chivalry is dead crap. Well, this girl and I were out and we were taking a long walk around the neighborhood. At on point I said, hey you know, not all men have forgotten chivalry and I moved to...
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    Strategy Help

    Hey fellas need some help here. I've recently reconnected with a girl that I had a short but intense experience with. we both got close very fast, very intense, but it didn't work out. To be honest, she wanted to break it off. The funny thing is, we have an amazing time together, challenge...
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    The old stalker routine.

    Clarification Ok, just to move this thread in a slightly different direction I need to make some clarifications. The old stalker routine I'm talking about is not, I repeat is not, a rejection mechanism that I am talking about. For those of you that haven't got a clue about what I mean here's...
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    The old stalker routine.

    I've been pondering something for a while, specifically, girls giving you the old stalker routing. What I mean by that is, even though she has met you and wants to get to know you better, blah, blah. She always pushes back a little and says something about having a stalker. Now I know some...
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    Is she in or is she out?

    Something is in the water. Puerto, You are totally right, and I must admit that even though she is damaged goods it still hurts when things don't turn out the way that you wanted. I must be honest though, and perhaps this needs a new thread, I have reached a point where I am sick of...
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    Is she in or is she out?

    Yo Ricky Yo man, I guess I just got lucky in that all this sh*t came out early for me. I was ready to get rid of the back up plans for this one. Sometimes you need to take that chance man. Either way, don't sweat it too much, it stings for a little while and then you realize that there...
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    Is she in or is she out?

    The details update. Basically here's the scoop fellas. This is a girl with some serious issues. We talked, I called her out on some things and basically told her that until she figures out what she wants I'm out. More importantly there were some things that I noticed about her that I...
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    Analyze This

    Just for my own benefit, and I'm trying to decipher the ******** what do you all think this means.... "I feel like that "instant intimacy" thing that I was talking about is seriously at play here. You've never felt the need to shower me with compliments or pick up every tab, and that's a...
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    Is she in or is she out?

    Update You fellas, the issue has been resolved. Better to have it resolved earlier rather than later. All in all it turned out like it should have, not like I wanted it. Such is life.
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    Is she in or is she out?

    JJ JJ, I guess I wasn't clear about this one. She asked to exclusively shag me. Quite honestly, at that point I was going to call it totally quits with her. I know we're all tough dudes with a will of steel but the fact of the matter is, I have feelings associated with this one. The kind...
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    Is she in or is she out?

    Yeah, what I thought exactly! DD, You totally hit the nail on the head. I feel pretty much like #3 is in effect. I guess we need to have the discussion on what the expectations are. You want me to stop shagging other girls which means you need to give something up as well. Either we're...
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    Is she in or is she out?

    Ok fellas I need some help. I've been seeing this girl that's about 8 years younger than me, 24 year old to be exact. I understand that there is a measure of flakiness that goes with that age group so I know to expect that stuff. Anyway, after about 6 weeks of on again off again give and take we...
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    Is she in or is she out?

    Ok fellas I need some help. I've been seeing this girl that's about 8 years younger than me, 24 year old to be exact. I understand that there is a measure of flakiness that goes with that age group so I know to expect that stuff. Anyway, after about 6 weeks of on again off again give and take...
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    need some help - oneitis and slipping into afc

    Dude Relax As long as you keep your cool, don't AFC the situation, you should be fine. Of course you should be asking yourself some serious questions during this time. Specifically, what do you want out of the short term, out of the long term. A couple of things to keep in mind, how well do...
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    Behavior

    Just when you think that you are making some progress something comes up that makes you realize that you are nothing more than a novice. For the last year I've been working on developing the principles and methods described here. For the most part it has been a resounding success. The sheer...
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