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  1. CoolWave1331

    Why Good Men Are Giving Up on Dating : The Relationship Struggle No One Wants to Talk About

    ^ High interest is when you are a priority and games are kept to a minimum (not completely eliminated - there is always initial element of push & pull to show she's high value / "in demand") The reality is men that women don't like: they tend to stay away from/avoid. They don't want to give...
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    Got blown out today

    Well give yourself a pat on the back You did something the great majority of men are unwilling to do: cold approach The great majority of time you will get rejected. Most women will be cool about it and try to let you down politely - a small % will be nasty. Either way if you just have a...
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    What Chivalrous stuff/moves do you do to women on a date?

    Making her *** first - what a funny guy I do all the "classic" stuff. When I take girls out on dates I like to show that I am considerate and take an interest in them. I can't say that it hurts even if doesn't work out fo rwhatever reason
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    What Women Really Want

    As others have said : they want a guy who other women want - this is the short answer. What kind of guy is that: A guy they perceive to be handsome, cool, successful or has the capability to be successful (all facets of life) You don't have to try hard if you appear to be one of these guys...
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    Is it possible for one event to drastically impact the course of a man's dating/sex life?

    Of course, any sort of trauma is enough to knock you off course and change the trajectory of your dating life. I'm not even talking about an extreme example like paralysis from a car accident - but let's say you suffer a deeply embarrassing and humiliating rejection - that can be enough to...
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    What is the Ideal Sleep Schedule for a Seducer Seeking New Women?

    Whatever works for the person. I'm in bed by 9-9:30 PM because I rise just about when the sun is coming up. I like to have those 2 hours or so to get my workout in and "relax" (I guess some call it meditate) before starting work. I would not be able to pull this off if I went to bed later and...
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    Blackpill reality is female reality

    Yes, is important. There some men really believe women don't care about men's appearance, women dishonestly repeat it too to gaslight guys...but we are not in the "believe what women say business", we are in the "watch what they do/respond to business". Men are "visual creatures", you've heard...
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    Testosterone and load boost strategy and supplements

    An important topic. Need adequate amounts of Vitamin D, it helps with all the "man stuff" I have this app on phone called D-Minder, it's just a vitamin d tracker. Gives you an estimation of how much Vitamin D you get from the sun (depending on conditions: how cloudy it is, amount of skin...
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    Gym vs Jogging outside/Calisthenics/Using Parks eq

    Mind sharing what kind of vest? I have tried & own several, a lot aren't really too comfortable which is the problem. The one I use which I like is a Rogue - it takes up to 2x 20 lb plates. Another good piece of body weight equipment is the TRX suspension system. I used to use it a lot when...
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    Roots and Herbs

    I can't really say they've "changed my life" but I have read about the benefits of Beet root and I use them in vegetable smoothies all th time. I like them they just stain everything. I got some space in backyard where I grow things, have not had much luck with growing Beets (very few become...
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    Looksmaxing yay or nay

    Yes dude, your presentation is like more than half of the equation. Women have eyes, yes? Of course your looks matter and anything you do to "improve" will help. There is always something that can be improved upon without having to go to extremes.....but sometimes that's necessary (have a...
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    Do you guys go to Spas- massages, facials, get pedicures for Men?

    Sports massage a couple of times a year. I have friend who is therapist & I go see her. It does make a difference for tightness/mobility and I would recommend for you guys. Manicures and pedicures? I cannot see myself....but if you want immaculate hands and feet, great. I'm a bit too...
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    I just had a hair transplant, ask me anything

    I was going to ask since some time has passed was it worth it? The procedure made you happier? That's great
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    Blackpill reality is female reality

    Was on Reddit and there were lots of these types commenting on a thread saying something to effect of "if the man doesn't rate high on the looks scale no woman will look his way ever". 1) It would be very interesting to see just what exactly the guys saying this look & act like and 2) It is...
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    Chick: We don't owe you sheet for being nice

    It is true a woman does not owe a man for being nice. It is also true men do not owe women anything for just existing. Simpish men need to take note of this.
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    My baby girl is 3 months old

    I'm not really your target as I don't have children of my own but I'd like to be a father someday (perhaps in a couple of years). I replied largely to say congratulations!
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    how to build a conversation?

    You might be overthinking things which holds you back The secret to having a "good" conversation is having someone who is present and willing to engage. You said "even when I’m genuinely open and willing to connect, many women just stay silent and put no effort into the conversation. And in...
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    is therapy helpful?

    If you've experienced trauma at any point in your life that you can't shake & creeps up on you (even infrequently), yes you have to deal with it. It's taking away from your happiness and ability to be fully productive if you don't. Sometimes you can do this on your own, other times you will...
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    Should a DJ keep his nerd toys like a Rubik's Cube hidden, in case he ascends and takes a chick home?

    I have one of these in my home-office. I use for stress relief / down periods and d.g.a.f. what perception is To put any fear to rest it has always made a good talking point and I am usually asked if I ever solved it (by the woman who see's it). I then usually pass it and it's fun to see her...
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    My value against rejection

    Rejecton is necessary for growth Sometimes is out of your hands and that is okay. You will fail sometimes even when "on point". If you can be honest and point to things you've been doing wrong / that need to change, the rejection should be motivation to do better. Problem I have seen with...
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