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    Seeking advice on pre-date text exchange

    I arranged an outdoor date for tomorrow with the girl I approached (on Sunday) in the gym: me at 12:24: "It looks like the weather is going to be bad tomorrow. Let's go out tomorrow night instead. I hope you can sing." her at 12:39: "Rainy days. Yes, let's go for dinner." My idea was to take...
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    I am bad at spinning plates

    In September, I fvcked 3 girls, with the potential of fvcking them again. Two of them were colleagues working at the same place After having the first (younger and hotter) girl, I wanted to go for the second My mistake, I think, is doing zero follow-up (spinning of the plate), with the first...
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    How do I not get flaked on here?

    Cute, 23 y.o., we've been talking almost 2 weeks, only able to arrange date now due to her and my work and my travel, interest level seems high, she texted first twice so far this week. What should I say next here? I don't want my time wasted again. If it were up to me, I would just say "if...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    Matched on Bumble on Friday. I extended her by 24 hours. She messaged at 2am on Saturday night (partying, drunk and horny?). She is 23 y.o., student, pretty, nerdy, multilingual, mixed nationalities, not overweight. Her message was cute. I replied yesterday (Sunday) evening with some banter...
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    Low T on OLD & text from ex

    I deducted 5 years from my age on OLD (28 instead of 33)... and lo and behold I matched some normal looking women. I tried to implement some advice I've gotten on here recently about how to move things along. One said she liked music in her profile so I opened with: "hello X, it's a pleasure...
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    What's the play here? IG cold DM

    This has good potential. Was swiping Tinder this morning in bed. HB7 (20) has IG on Tinder bio I cross to IG, follow her, and cold DM her Conversation so far: m: Hey! I saw you on Tinder. I also live in [...]. Do you like to dance? Or do karaoke? We can go together some time. h: (almost...
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    What's the play? OLD

    Help me brothers. I want to close. Matched and started talking to a HB7 (29) on Bumble on Monday (4 days ago) Conversation so far... me: how was your weekend? her: great, a friend came over, how was yours? m: It would have been better if I got to spend it with you (+ Leo DiCaprio 'cheers'...
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    Critique this spot: 1st OLD

    I'm on a 2.5 month drought. Last weekend I got a OLD with a HB5. We met at a bar. Initial chat was light and smooth. When we approached the bar I ordered first: a non-alcoholic beer (I don't drink). The greaseball barman tries to give me sh1t, but I engage him with lots of light hearted energy...
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    Critique this spot: beach babe

    I described this spot before in another thread but I want to open it up here for ideas. (It's one that will come up again.) I was hanging out alone on a beach; swimming, reading, eating snacks from my cooler etc. HB8 sets up about 15 feet away, lies face down, smoking, headphones on, scrolling...
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    Men's clubs / groups

    Do you know of any good men's clubs or groups that operate online? I'm looking to connect with a group of men on a video call on a weekly basis where we hold ourselves accountable to just be better. I'm not looking for any paid consulting or to hire a coach or mentor or to buy a course...
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    Game development // approach log

    Me Early thirties, living overseas." How I got here Firstly I want to say what a breath of fresh air this community is. Rollo Tomassi's interview on the Power Project podcast was recommended on my YouTube feed (thanks algorithm). I listened, bought The Rational Male, listened and now I'm here...
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