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Thanks for your comment. That statement you quoted from my earlier post...feels like a lifetime ago. A lot of what I said before is probably not even relevant now, so much has changed. And I have learned a lot about her along the way.

Dropping in for an update. Crushing it at work, got a 16% payrise with another coming after I deliver my current project. Crushing the gym, went from 20% bodyfat to 12% and gained 5kg muscle (have receipts for this) and in a better state than I was @20y/o (my previous fitness peak) Started...

The OP could be victim to a basic-bunch of colleagues. You become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with and if that is your work colleagues, and they aren't aggressively seeking excellence/wealth/side hustles etc then you likely won't absorb that energy. I found this at my...

Sometimes you would be correct. I have some great anecdotal evidence to back up my claims ;):p

Literally is the worst. I'm not a small dude so when I fvk a chick who feels loose and hasn't had kids i'm like "where the giant dildo at?" I guess it is the female version of porn for men. It ruins the real sexual experience for both of you.

I have met a few people who were so woke, I am certain PC would get them hot and bothered. :rolleyes: You're not wrong! context is unecessary to the lynch mobs who are ready and waiting! More than likely it wont happen again, and I will leave. Yeah I was and am always cautious of this, I'm...

Yeah I will have a go at it. I think I am trying to find a good grip to hang on to this relationship. The last thing I want is to lose my drive/imagination and become just another simp engineer spreadsheet monkey.

Is it though? I'm not sure I do know it for sure. Was I not just literally doing it wrong? How do I know she just doesn't need that kind of dominance for our sex life to exist?

I been doing it wrong in this LTR, previously I never had to think about it, my previous relationships were short. In those relationships/flings I would either get jumped by her as soon as we were alone or I'd feel that sexual tension and just go for it. LTR seems different. Thanks for your...

So I figured this would need another thread. long story short, sexless LTR, always getting rejected for sex, I thought it was low attraction (still think this might be the case) but the other night my subconcious kind of "took over" and I woke up hard grinding/rubbing her and with no objections...

Yeah that makes total sense, I have seen, met and fvked the "averaged dressed, seemingly average attractive woman" and I can attest to her ability to suck the chrome off a tow hitch. She also wanted me to "stage a break in and rape" to fulfil a fantasy of hers. So they can be all kinds of crazy...

So last night I woke up grinding her ass hard*** (Subconscious me is apparently very randy) and she wasn't objecting or telling me to fk off so I decided fk it and I pinned her down prone (protection first, no babies) and then went to pound town. She wasn't all "loved up" this morning or wanting...

This is a fantastic comment. A lot of your assessment is scarily accurate. I spent several hours last night writing a reply and deleting what I had written. There is so much I don't have the answer for but I think I have precipitated the best answer to summarise it all, and is something you...

Maybe she was just being lazy, she is wearing it today, but last night I went out after school, no explanation of where I was going or who with just said "going out, dont wait up" but also kudos for saving $$ on that stuff, it's always so expensive and if your girl is pragmatic and fine with it...

I don't understand the mini-adventures part, but I joined my university's Rocket club. So I'll be building rockets in my spare time :D If i'm honest sex is great but rockets... fffffffffffffuuuuuhhhhhhh :love::love::love::love::love::love:

Dude I am sorry to hear this, but glad you got the kids though, and glad they can see through her ****. I hope you took her for half, or did she have nothing to begin with? I don't think this girl would run off with mr moneybags, but the fact that I am not "man enough" for her as I am is enough...

^^ This is the Truth** We had a disagreement (as far as arguments I have had with anyone it was pitiful, but as far as arguments I have had with her it was one of the bigger ones, and centered on a debate at my fkn birthday party that I had with a friend of hers). I refused to concede my...

Yeah I know in the past I have had no filter, and I can be abrasive/cold. I choose to analyse first, and not react (typical of my personality type) when It looks like the normal thing to do is get heated and emotional (I assume, based on my observations of others). I often have "unpopular"...

Some awesome advice. Thank you to all the bro's out there helping each other out My coworker also put me onto RT's Rational Male, and thus I was introduced to SS. And I would also like to thank everyone for their help, I really appreciate it. I hope to pay it forward one day.