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  1. James Cruse

    Beware the attention *****, the female equivalent of creepiness (story time)

    Firstly - of course I’ve experienced tonnes of attention-wh*re behaviour from women EVERYWHERE, not just at the gym. It’s hilarious that you think I would never have experienced this in the 15+ years I’ve been practicing seduction. What I was saying above is: LEVERAGE this attention-wh*re...
  2. James Cruse

    Beware the attention *****, the female equivalent of creepiness (story time)

    I go to the gym in the early or late evenings so I’m not sure there is a definative “gym culture” that’s been agreed to or followed by anyone. Sometimes it’s a drink and other times it’s some food and sometimes a date later. The point isn’t really my location or time - it’s that girls I’m not...
  3. James Cruse

    Beware the attention *****, the female equivalent of creepiness (story time)

    I think you’re half correct here. In my experience, if I meet a woman who’s married - she’ll often hide her wedding ring (happens more than you think) or put off telling you they’re married for the following reasons: 1. She’s in deficit of diversified male attention/male validation. They’re...
  4. James Cruse

    Beware the attention *****, the female equivalent of creepiness (story time)

    Alot of people have commented on this and I think alot of comments here have missed the forest for the trees. Women NEED attention AND validation on a biological level. They often aren’t even aware they need it or to what extent they actually need it. To a woman and her unconscious mind (and...
  5. James Cruse

    Why the Gym will make you more of an Incel than a player

    Where do you live? I live in Australia in a large city and most hot girls with a boyfriend are either very good looking fit pretty boy or ripped gym lad. Not all but most. I’m not implying it’s a must - but it’s clearly not uncommon or not happening as you say. When I was overseas in...
  6. James Cruse

    Does traveling actually ruin anyone else's game?

    You think most cities look the same? I honestly haven’t found that and I’ve travelled alot. Where have you been outside of the US and found that? Agreed - getting on a plane to a nearby US city isn’t “travelling”. Going outside of North America, in this case is travelling. I don’t agree -...
  7. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Perfect, thanks brother. I appreciate the support. Totally agree. What work would you be doing though if you hadn’t gotten the results you want in the past? If you’re not getting guidance by others, how do you know where to go? In that vain, what guidance would you recommend and what work...
  8. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Perfect, then you can learn from my posts. If you’re using anything by Jmulv, you need the help.
  9. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Lmao - this is the same old hackey argument: if you know alot and have read alot = you must rarely approach. JUST LOL. It’s ok that there’s guys here are more experienced, know more and have read and learned more than you. It’s not a big deal. Learn from them.
  10. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    I’m clearly far more experienced than anyone I’ve encountered here. There seems to be alot of keyboard jockeys here. Do you actually know what attracts a woman to a man? You just wouldn’t say any of these things if you did. The answers are in that material I referred to, if you feel the need...
  11. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    This is a big cope by guys that are too lazy to read or watch anything. You would like to think I don’t actually approach because I’ve read all this material. I approach girls every day, do you? Learning about it and doing it aren’t mutually exclusive. I’ve just made it easier for alot of guys...
  12. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    What does that even mean?
  13. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    And you’ve read the 1,500 pages of God Like Power and it’s extra parts? Tell us some things you learned and why you think Vadim and what he teachss is better than Mike Haines and what he teaches in that material.
  14. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Lol, no you haven’t read that whole book. Nothing in it is what you just described. C’mon brother, stop being a KJ. What did you learn makes a man attractive to a woman from ‘The Manual’?
  15. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Yeah, Mike Haines took the best material from Julien, Tyler, Jeffy, Alex et al and other non-RSD coaches he knew and put it in his product - God Like Power that I listed.
  16. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Reading this, you haven’t seen or read ANY of the material in my recommendations I posted in this thread. All of them are heavy of inner game and your thoughts about yourself. I’ve seen all of Vadim’s material, I have all his products and he has fun infields. But he is average with his...
  17. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Ok, well again, I said UMP was an honourable mention. Have you read all of Woujo’s posts in his collected posts book? Which ones in particular did you have an issue with? I’m guessing you haven’t seen or read any or all of the other material I listed? It’s abit silly to write off material that...
  18. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    He’s not Indian - he’s Arab and what you just said is a whole lot of nothing. Zero idea where that is - I have read all of his posts currently on reddit. Can you copy that post here please? Did you actually talk to any of UMP’s students like I did? No. So this is all silly speculationof you...
  19. James Cruse

    Which coaches are the real deal?

    Have you actually read Woujo’s posts? He has some very insightful ideas that I’ve found very useful. Some of his material is immature and , I made those comments to him directly. Woujo is Arab, NOT Indian - so you’re misinformed. First of all, UMP is in the honorable mentions bud. I live in...
  20. James Cruse

    Club / Bar game observations

    To be honest, alot of this strikes me as embellished or flat out untrue OR that you were making ALOT of simple mistakes: You had to “sweet talk” a bouncer to allow you and your friend access to a bar near a university campus? Never heard of it, unless you were dressed terribly. Uni bars...
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