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And if you then asked when she WAS free, she would say something like " i am not sure what my schedule is" or "maybe" if i gave another time and date

If they were not interested, what linguistic gymnastics would they use?

Hello all, I recently asked a girl out go-karting for this weekend. She responded with "That sounds like soo much fun, but I am busy this weekend". About 20 seconds later, she messaged again to ask if I wanted to go for drinks on Friday night. Is this a counter-offer that shows interest or...

Hey all, I may have got it wrong. My friends have said it wasn't as bad as I thought, and that it was MY feeling and may not have been bad vibes. I told them when we were playing pool, she would get playful and tease me to get out the way and shoeing me. I didn't pick up on it, but...

I doubt she would, to be honest. She isn't crazy like some modern day women are now. Everything about her was somewhat good, she vibes were off.

I could, but she knows my new work place. I should have walked out sooner on the date. She was a rare lady, in terms of compared to modern women. She had no kids, no daddy issues, no tattoos, coloured hair, wasn't bitchy or came across dominating and aggressive. But like I said, vibes were...

One point would add. I told her I thought she had a great arse. Obviously not in direct language. I said She wears her jeans well. She blushed and said thank you and smiled. not sure if that was good result or not

You are right, I am not feeling it. What if I am not interested but she counters with to still be friends? What would I get out of it? I think it would be best to move on.

She has agreed to a second date. But not sure whether I should now.

Thing is she came across quite difficult. Her positioning on the date was such that making any attempts at initiating contact hard. She asked questions about my family and siblings, she talked about herself a lot, in terms of childhood, favourite foods, family, music taste but did seem to have...

Update: I'm not feeling it. I get the impression she would pull back if I initiated kino or a kiss or whatever. So I've knocked the second date on the head as its a waste of time and resources But thanks for the advice all

Ive taken this advice, and messaged her to confirm the time and place and she said "okay" So it is on.

Why are warm social leads difficult to get? You are right about inexperience and her being a backup/not physically attracted to her. I was interested in another woman who displayed red flags, such a single mum, expressionless bitchy face, masculine in personality and style. She turned out to...

What do you mean by "inexperience"? Do you mean in setting the date? I would like to disagree around the rescheduling issue. I think it was my mistake. She gave me a date of the 7th when she was free, but I took a week to arrange a date for the 7th, hence she now has plans.

Thanks. I am following this advice, even though she is trying to continue a conversation. She messaged me to say she has finished work and is going to sleep. So I replied "glad you had a productive day. Get some sleep" to close the conversation, and she said "Thanks lol, night." Now I am...

Well to be fair, she told me last week she was free and we could have gone out but I did not make a date as I was unaware. She also gave me a date of the 7th January as a day she was free. However, it was only today that I suggested the 7th. She could have made plans as I was slow in asking her...

So Just turn up on the date and time set? Also, is it likely she may text to confirm the date closer to the time?

All done. We are going out next Monday. I have set a date and time and location. Should I hit her up closer to the time to confirm?

Have you not read the above advice from the members...make a definite day. Doing the above,AGAIN,you are just going round in circles/ prolonging the inaction and chance of nothing happening. Dont overthink stuff.get her out,get it on! The reason being is that I wasn't sure if she was flaking...

She has agrees to pay for the bowling, and i pay for the pool and amusements. However, now she claims she's off that week but busy that day, despite last week saying she was free on the 7th. She says any other day but next Saturday. What should I say back? "No problem, hit me up when you...