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Normally I would recommend communicating and settings things out straight. Telling her: I am not okay with the way this relationship is going recently... Talk it out, try to fix, etc.. But it seems that it's already over. So, perhaps your winning move here is to break up with her and focus on...

True that. I got it wrong mainly because in recent experiences of approaching and getting a number, me and a girl text, then one of us travels to another city or something like that, some days pass, the momentum dies, she probably forgets all about our 5-10 minute conversation (or some other guy...

Not really. There was some mystery, although I shared more than I should have, and was probably too enthusiastic in our conversation. Otherwise, at one point she opened her phone and insisted to see my art but I rejected her request. Told her she ain't ready yet. Usually I am more mysterious but...

Fair enough. You could be right about the lust and sexuality thing. I kept the vibe playful, the undertone of the interaction was flirtatious, and she followed my lead, but I probably should have built more sexual tension, and let her chase me. About the gesture - I am still not fully convinced...

That's true, man. However, my main purpose of this analyzing process is to understand my mistakes, and make sure I don't repeat them. I am all about improvement. This is why I take notes of my cold approaches, and this is sort of one of them. A few people mentioned low interest. Even if that's...

How exactly does your observation help me improve my "game"? At least try to bring some value, it's so easy to be a critic. P.S.: The girl is like 19 years old. And I am in my 20s. I don't think this act can be seen as something that bad, but if you have reasonable explanation, I'd like to hear it.

I will try to make this short. Yesterday I was at an event. It was about art and literature. Saw a cute girl there. She turned a couple of times to my direction, walked near me, and was by herself. Soon enough I decided to approach her on the bar while she was eating a piece of cake and...

Thank you. @Dr.Suave - I do hit the gym. The second part is a good advice. I am working on building that life. Done a lot of traveling and following my purpose, etc. / Social circle is not my thing, at least not at this point in life, as I've changed a lot of places and cities recently, and I...

Hello, I feel like I'm in a doomed circle, from which I find it hard to escape. I haven't been with a woman for a while, and this is pulling me back from doing so. Because of that, I have deep within me a lack of confidence and self-belief. And it shows on the surface in one way or another. We...

" When I discipline myself to eat properly, live morally, exercise regularly, grow mentally and spiritually, and not put any drugs or alcohol in my body, I have given myself the freedom to be at my best, perform at my best, and reap all the rewards that go along with it. " - Zig Ziglar

Just don't.

I believe you start becoming high value by respecting yourself, not settling for less, chasing excellence (striving to reach your highest potential) and being on your purpose.

Go to girl. Say "Hi, my name is *****"

Hello. I recently read this amazing book and was inspired to condense and share part of its' valuable ideas here. The book definitely has depth and many of the concepts in it are connected with the masculine psyche and (un)consciousness. The extracted text below is a simple way of viewing the...

Perhaps you attract what you are.

Not to mock you or anything but if you've spent "372" days on Tinder and never got a date, why would you waste any more time in there? (reason > dopamine)

The best conversationalists are actually the best listeners. Always listen more than you talk. Be genuinely interested in the other person. And, of course, educate yourself on different topics, which interest you. That way you would always have value to add to another people and be an...

These things helped me achieve inner peace of mind: Stoic Philosophy (the concept that nothing really matters and you shouldn't worry about things outside of your control) Learning how to be here and now in the present moment (Eckhart Tolle's book helps a lot) Knowing that you are on your path...

Hello, guys. Hope you are doing good! I have a new job and there are a lot of women around, most of whom - attractive. We are in the same office, but in different teams (pairs). I find 3 or 4 girls attractive and some of them have interest in me too. We have talked a little bit, mostly...

You are completely right. However I'm kinda sick and might have corona right now so I don't plan leaving my house for another 10 days. And momentum (inertia) is king, for real! I've seen with my own eyes what magics and destructions It can create. I know wishful thinking about an imaginary...