Buddies Ex-Wife asking if I was single again

[2Rocky]

Her words were "did you and XY break up?"

We knew each other when they were married but we weren't close. We talked occasionally . We have kids the same age and similar interests. They are amicable in the split.

I had a Tinder profile from 5 years ago that she saw. She asked through social media messaging. I'd forgotten about it.

When I replied in the negative she was quick to say it was a crappy pic. Made me wonder if she had genuine interest, or was just looking for gossip.

FWIW if I was single I wouldn't DATE her (publicly) because of my buddy.

 

[Barrister]

Her words were "did you and XY break up?"

We knew each other when they were married but we weren't close. We talked occasionally . We have kids the same age and similar interests. They are amicable in the split.

I had a Tinder profile from 5 years ago that she saw. She asked through social media messaging. I'd forgotten about it.

When I replied in the negative she was quick to say it was a crappy pic. Made me wonder if she had genuine interest, or was just looking for gossip.

FWIW if I was single I wouldn't DATE her (publicly) because of my buddy.

Sounds like a great way to strain the relationship with your buddy by dating his ex-wife. I could see how some people may be cool with it - but it would certainly bother most. I think that is a good move taking a pass. For the record, I would say that she was definitely interested to ask. She was trying to get you to ask her out.

 

[derby1]

well done for having some honour in this societal decay

 

[bat soup]

Her words were "did you and XY break up?"

We knew each other when they were married but we weren't close. We talked occasionally . We have kids the same age and similar interests. They are amicable in the split.

I had a Tinder profile from 5 years ago that she saw. She asked through social media messaging. I'd forgotten about it.

When I replied in the negative she was quick to say it was a crappy pic. Made me wonder if she had genuine interest, or was just looking for gossip.

FWIW if I was single I wouldn't DATE her (publicly) because of my buddy.

Do you want to bang her in secret then? If so, make a move. Suggest doing something together but make it very obvious that it's just a pretext for getting her alone.

 

[2Rocky]

Do you want to bang her in secret then? If so, make a move. Suggest doing something together but make it very obvious that it's just a pretext for getting her alone.

No I don't. Just playing "What If". Knowing I could if I wanted is enough.

I never really dated in my social circle. Sure never *****d around in it.

 

[Alvafe]

No I don't. Just playing "What If". Knowing I could if I wanted is enough.

I never really dated in my social circle. Sure never *****d around in it.

all in all I would just toss in the looking for gossip, just because I wouldn't be interested, also it would depend on how she is, is the desperate type who can't stand being alone and any will do? or is she the kind who like to make couple of others?

 

[sch]

Maybe she wanted to hook you up with her girlfriend, it could be a thousand different reasons.

 

[crowolf]

Just don't.

 

[SW15]

I never really dated in my social circle. Sure never *****d around in it.

Seems like the longest term relationships among the majority of the friends I've made since moving to my current city were a result of social circles.

 

[derby1]

I think it is evolving rather then decaying. To a degree. Talking relationships here and sex. Not criminality.

I dont know, I was raised by an honourable man, so I follow his way, my daughter is pretty brutal aswell for a 13 year old, if you gave her a sword and a village to protect, I think she would cope quite well, even though shes feminine as hell.