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    What I believe to be, by far, the hardest thing about cold approaches

    Majority of women are no in most cases social circle game -99 percent of women don’t like me- that’s fine , the rare occasion they did I was too slow to act anyway online dating most likely 99.9 percent of women are swiping left on me- I gave up on it in 2018 nightgame - some make outs and a...
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    What I believe to be, by far, the hardest thing about cold approaches

    I’ve seen people in the seduction community doing very well with cold approach - I think you need to try it for yourself without judging
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    Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming? (Continued)

    Yeah pretty much this- just use them to build a social circle and friendships - they could be good social proof later on with girls you meet from regular cold approach as your main source in terms of tactics it’s soo difficult - the wrong move could get you in trouble and ultimately I don’t...
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    Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming? (Continued)

    Whatever happened to just going out on the street and asking out women- ****ting where you eat is a big risk nowadays , juice isn’t worth the squeeze imo, use these women to build a solid social circle and just build your main leads from regular cold approach
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    Is the girl interested in me or what?

    You need more options- go and approach more women, if you’re overthinking one girl it’s a sign that you don’t have enough in the pipeline
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    Confessions : as life gets better dating got worse..

    Exactly - 3 dates is nothing- and most men can’t even get 3 dates in a year in the first place - seems like the op has a perfectionist attitude - perfectionism in regards to dating when there’s so many variables out of your control , is not a good thing
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    Confessions : as life gets better dating got worse..

    Think people are overcomplicating the answers he has 3 bad dates - really it’s nothing in the grand scheme of things
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    Confessions : as life gets better dating got worse..

    3 bad dates is nothing lmao you can’t let that get to you Everyone on this forum has had bad dates- you can’t let perfectionism stall your momentum , dating isn’t a maths equation- you don’t need to be bating 10/10 or nailing every approach and getting laid 10 minutes into every date , there’s...
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    Confessions : as life gets better dating got worse..

    But there’s variances right? You can go on good runs and bad runs in pickup- it’s a bit like poker you can get on losing streaks and winning streaks- when I first started cold approaching during the day I had a 5 months dry spell followed by 3 women in the space of a week - it blows hot and cold...
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    Confessions : as life gets better dating got worse..

    Marrying and dating the right women can have a huge impact on your life- how is it a waste of time exactly? It’s a man’s job to chase and create leads and initiate conversation. Even if you improve as a man if the number of women you approach falls then your dating life too will go down hill...
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    What I believe to be, by far, the hardest thing about cold approaches

    Roosh looked far fitter and healthier when he was doing pua then when he converted to Christianity anyway- I argue his impact on the world was better before he found Christ as an atheist who genuinely enjoys pickup I’m somewhat left feeling a bit frustrated by those who blame pick-up when if it...
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    What I believe to be, by far, the hardest thing about cold approaches

    I think his sister dying of cancer was the real reason he converted to Christianity - maybe he just turned nuts after that and wanted religion to save him.
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    What I believe to be, by far, the hardest thing about cold approaches

    I find it hilarious how in a forum which encourages men to lead that people actively discourage men from cold approaching Cold approaching has so many benefit’s and can really enhance your social circle if done right The act of starting a conversation is an act of leadership and confidence in...
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    Confessions : as life gets better dating got worse..

    The more I cold approached the easier everything became - how much time are you spending actively meeting new people ?
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    In my area, I mostly only have success with these types of women. Why?

    In the beginning cold approaching tourist chicks was helpful because it got me into the pattern of getting used to dating often- prior to cold approaching I was only getting 1 date every 8 months or so- when I did cold approach I was getting 4-5 a week so it was a huge shift, it built my...
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    In my area, I mostly only have success with these types of women. Why?

    I met my girlfriend through cold approach we have been together for three years Cold approach does work but it requires consistency and effort you can get dates and solid relationships but it does require persistence and good smv Cold approaching is all about expanding options and getting...
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    In my area, I mostly only have success with these types of women. Why?

    When I did daygame most women I dated were either tourists or university students with a smallish social circle of course game is about seizing opportunities- local women in cities with high quality men are likely to be taken I enjoyed my time with said tourists though and I learnt a lot- far...
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    In my area, I mostly only have success with these types of women. Why?

    I mean it’s to be expected If I approach a local in London who’s attractive most likely she’s got a strong enough social circle to meet a lot of men before hand so unless I’m opportunistically lucky there’s a decent chance I’ll fail but still always take any chance you see ! rejection is...
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    In my area, I mostly only have success with these types of women. Why?

    Doing daygame most of my lays came from tourists and I think it’s easy to see why no slut shamming and no judgement from friends also they are alone and needing to hang out with women born and raised in my city London usually were already in relationships by the time I’d approached them so...
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    Dealing with a combative woman, draining

    Just approach other women it really is that simple- there are plenty of decent women out there
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