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... I took a 'break' from my g/f (we dated a year), then a week later - restored almost everything (except 'official' status). ... next week+ was good - things were on the mend ... THEN she calls me, tearful voice and breaks it off with me, for good (or so I thought). ... two weeks go by...

At the risk of sounding arrogant; the farther I go down the road of self-improvement, the closer I get to the final stage / ultimate DJ-ness, the more I come to realize - how few women there are out there who warrant my effort. I've been 'played' by so many different women, so many times...

While at a bar I rarely go to (with my overweight, total AFC, c0ck-blocking buddy), a gorgeous chic comes by our table and asks if she can borrow one of our (extra) chairs ... so of course, I tell her "forget it..." so right away she smiles and gives me a smart ass smirk, smiles and then starts...

Does your dating motto make you an AFC or DJ? These are the rules (in my little part of the world anyway) that most of the guys (and girls of course) follow; 1. you can only 'date' one at a time, if you are dating one - under no circumstances are you allowed to associate with others (in a...

How many girls say yes to a date the first time YOU ask them? There's a definite pattern; I RARELY get a yes the first time I ask a chic out, I usually have to ask/suggest... it at least twice before they agree! Now, I'm not talking about chics that I am unsure of their interest, I'm talking...

"is this (going to be) like a date?" That's what a girl (HB9-she's done some modelling) asked me when I phoned her up and asked her to come to a concert with me!. My answer was something like "No, lets just go have some fun!" and apparently it was the wrong thing to say because she declined...

Taking a girl away from an AFC boyfriend is harder than it should be, WHY? A girl I have been out with a couple times has a boyfriend and from what I've seen, is the definition of AFC, yet she sticks with him! On our first date, he called SIX f***in times in about a 6 hour period, and he...

My relationship with a girl is ruining my chances with other hot girls in my circle (class...) and I need to somehow let it be known that this particular girl has NO CLAIM ON ME. It seems that one of the many double standards that women have is biting me square in the a$$, friends of this girl...

Unfortunately for me, I've gotten pretty good at recognizing when a chic has no intentions of calling or emailing even though she says she will. I ask a question and the chic says "I'll let you know" and I'm thinking "no you won't" What I want to know is, do you let her 'get away with it'...

Salesmanship, is it not one of the most overlooked and underestimated DJ qualities? Does anyone else get the impression that in order to have success as a DJ you need to be a good salesman? And in this case the product you are promoting is yourself? Lately I have been getting this a lot...

I have a problem, and I'm totally serious about this, I have NO female friends, NO unattached, single, female friends that I could use for 'social proof'. NO female friends to use for setting me up with their girl friends. I honestly have no idea (from personal experience anyway) what the...

How do you deal with girls, that don't quite treat you like they would 'just a friend' but you aren't a boyfriend either? I have more stories (and more girls doing the same thing) but we'll just deal with last night (out with a group of friends) and girl #2, who I had a pretty good first date...

Is a woman that we label to be an 'attention wh0re' not just the female equivalent of a DJ? What universal characteristics does an 'attention wh0re' usually have; 1 attractive 2 lots of guy friends 3 flirtatious by nature 4 thrives on the attention of guys 5 skilled at manipulating...

How do you deal with a girl who didn't return your phone call? What is the right way? I know the whole thing about not phoning too much, not leaving several messages and on and on... But it is inevitable, eventually you're going to have to leave a message. Whether it is a girl you've dated a...

How does a guy tell the difference between a recreational tease/attention ho, and a popular HB who is playing hard to get? If she is just a tease, then yah let her let go find some other chump to toy with, but what if it is just an interested girl who has lots of options just making sure you...

Just want some opinions on a situation; if I should just go for it, or if it is better to just chalk it up as a missed opportunity, and move on. The scenario; I went motorbiking a week ago with a buddy to the lake, he wanted to look up a girl he is friends with, we found her (and 2 other...

I've been wondering, is it more of an AFC behavior or more DJ, to fight off your competition for a woman that is in your 'sights', or just let her go, NEXT. Lets say you have just met and are just getting to know a woman that is obviously interested in you, and you are in her. She is not yet...

Although it is hard to figure out why, I do see plenty of HB's choosing an obvious AFC over a DJ. Just one example; I recently spent the day with a buddy and a couple of really cute girls we know, well one of the girls in about an eight hour period got SIX phone calls from the same guy. I...

It seems I have a serious and repeating problem with almost EVERY girl I meet. Practically every tip or article I have ever read on this site-I say to myself "yah I know I do that already!" and yet every girl that seems interested in me plays so many games that it seems like my entire dating...

I have a recurring scenario happening to me even though I'm sure the particular girl is interested in me. I tell a girl I'm going to .... at such a time and ask if she wants to join me (it's always an activity that most would consider fun). I get an answer like "well ummmm I'm not sure...