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    How do I break up with my gf?

    I just did this on Sunday I'm in a similar situation as you. Met a girl 6 months ago. She's a great person, and it's quite rare for me to say that because it is rare for me to find a person (of either sex) who I'm comfortable with completely. I was definitely very into her at first...
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    Am I jumping in too quickly?

    You've been with this guy a month and you're already meeting his parents and flying across the country to do so? Well, it looks like you're deep into the relationship already. I hope for everyone's sake that this isn't short-term infatuation. It's easy to get hit with the infatuation bug...
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    Am I jumping in too quickly?

    Nobody can answer that There is no set "rule" saying when it's right to jump back in again. It has to be a completely individual decision that only you can come to. One month after 2.5 years would be plenty of time for a lot of people, but they aren't you and didn't have the relationship...
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    anti-flake technique for online chick?

    To be fair, "I'll call you" could indeed be woman-speak for "I'm not going to call you". That's why it was mentioned upthread by someone that you should be the one getting the number and calling her. The vast majority of women expect this and want this out of the man. They want you to initiate...
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    anti-flake technique for online chick?

    It is. If you don't care about her anymore then just do that...walk away. No need to make a fuss or even tell her that you're done with her, because that shows she upset you enough to cause you to get some sort of revenge, however small it may be.
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    anti-flake technique for online chick?

    you didn't call last night. it's really annoying when people don't do what they say they will. don't bother calling anymore. You let her know that she got to you and upset you. Unless your objective was to truly have her not be interested in you anymore, this was a bad move.
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    Too much too fast?

    Hey guys, quick question that I'd appreciate opinions on. Met a girl, set up a date, and things went very well on the actual date last night. We ended up really hitting it off and were making out pretty intensely by the end of the night. She kept mentioning how much fun she was having and...
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    I messed up.. advice please?

    Dude, give it up!! It sounds like you've got a case of oneitis man, not an attractive trait as it reeks of desperation. Like many have said previously, just chill out and do nothing. Obsessing over whether or not she responds to your texts and what that means is not worth your time. If...
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    what did i get myself into

    That sucks dude Yo man sorry to hear about that but that's how things roll sometimes. You went in with the mentality that you were going to do her, and when she resisted because of her kid/emotions, you were right to not force her (I can only imagine how frustrating that must be being a virgin...
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    Ressurection of a Lost Soul

    Nice work, sir Hey man, You are doing very well so far. The hardest part is actually getting out there and doing it. You learn best from being active and learning from your mistakes, so be confident that you are well on your way. It sounds like you have a lot of potential at this! Anyway...
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    How do I approach her?

    Draw her a picture of herself and give it to her. Then ask her to a school dance...
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    My Approach: The Sincere Compliment

    I think this method has its merits I wouldn't dismiss the C&F approach altogether, but rather think that if both of these methods are used interchangably that you can keep a woman on her toes, and thus keep her interest in you high. I would guess that determining your initial approach (C&F...
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    Interested in LTR, should I hold off on sex for now?

    I understand where you're coming from man, but I think I am kind of growing tired of having casual relationships with 2-3, sometimes 4 different women at a time. See, I've only had 2 LTRs in my lifetime (I'm 24) and both were a good long time ago when I was still in my teens. This girl actually...
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    Interested in LTR, should I hold off on sex for now?

    Hey all, I recently met this girl and we hit it off immediately. We hooked up the first night we met and she actually stayed over my apartment though we did not have sex. The second night we hung out, I wasn't expecting to end up back at her place but I did. I know I could have closed the...
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    Takes long to put it on = all momentum is lost?

    This is indeed a *****. What I do to try and prolong her passion is to kiss her wildly while using my free hands to open the condom wrapper, and if I'm already naked at this point, just slip it on while still making out with her. Often times her eyes are closed and she doesn't even know...
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    Extremely high IL or psycho?

    Was there any element of sarcasm in her statement saying "are we exclusive?" If so, I think that's pretty damn funny haha. If not, I'd be a little concerned and would potentially advise you to pay attention to her actions/words around you. You've had 1 date, have not established any...
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    Good Lord I'm having an AFC relapse!

    Just bumping this incase anyone else wants to add their thoughts or similar experiences. Thanks!
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    My room mate this semester is gay

    Hey man, I was in the same situation with you when I first went to college. I was assigned to room with a flaming gay guy. At first I was apprehensive, being a sheltered middle class suburbanite with little exposure to such a lifestyle. However, over time his sexual orientation became...
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    Good Lord I'm having an AFC relapse!

    "Unfortunately there's not too much we can do for you. Nothing we say is going to change your behavior, plus you don't want to listen to reason anyway" I beg to differ Dr. Zaius. I still possess a rational faculty and am willing to distance myself somewhat to seek help from you guys. Why the...
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