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Well, I haven't been here for quite some time, and a lot of time has passed since my breakup (first love, 9 months relationship). I was planning on writing a message probably as long as the one quoted above. But I don't have to, as Reboot somehow has the exact same experiences as me, even the...

Stay strong bro, only temporary. Ask yourself why you think you can't do better than that b#tch. I mean, really? Can't do better than a chick that wasn't worth your time or energy in the first place? For me personally, it's not that another chick blew her away. It was myself, as soon as I...

Well, my HB7-8 Chinese chick ghosted me. Whatever, had some nice s3x and a good time, off to the next b1tch (which is a 20 yo HB7) Life's good, the weather is finally improving and I haven't wasted any serious thought on my ex in weeks.

You're welcome, that's what the forum is for. Exactly, she was only looking for your validation, which is why she changed her behavior in the first place. Don't fall for that, AWALT. It's hard, we've all been there, but it's the only right thing to do. Well done! Good. Let all the emotions...

Agree 100%. Restart your NC, and don't beat yourself up. It happens to the best of us that we have weak moments. As I said in a post above: It's normal, it happens and it'll pass. Don't worry. Or post here instead of writing a message to a friend/family member. Yes you should normally be able...

Stay strict NC, and don't play along her BS with the "conversation". She seeks for your validation, and is trying to get some negative emotion out of you to justify her decision. When she comes by next week, you exchange stuff, and that's it. No talk, nothing. If she insists, you politely...

Well, about 7-8 months since the breakup I have to admit, time and keeping yourself busy helps more than I've ever imagined. For the past 2 months, I'm doing perfect. New 20k€ car, New Tattoo, lots of concerts I've been to, and 3 b#tches I can switch between to get some s€x. Life's easy...

This. One of the hardest lessons to learn, but also one of the most important.

I know, and as I said before: no stress. It's still very fresh, so it's alright and more than normal. The past- What if, what if, what if... F#ck this, honestly, can you change it? No. So why torture yourself any further? Again, those thoughts are normal, and they will fade with time, don't...

Just one thing to this post: DON'T LET YOUR PAST TAKE AWAY THAT MUCH FROM YOUR PRESENT.

The feeling of guilt is normal, I had that too. Trust me, it'll pass with time. You just go on with your life in the speed you decide is right. Nobody has the right to tell you how fast you move on, how fast you heal and how fast you get another girl. Do what you want, it's your life. In my...

60 days, not months :D But yes, it works to the point that you'll definitely feel a lot better at that point. The working part really sucks a$s, but try to minimize the contact at work as much as possible. The time you need to get over an ex depends on many factors, for example the time you...

Her not contacting you ever again would be the best that could happen. And even if she contacts you, what about it? The only reason for you to respond would be that you still had interest in rekindling with her. But hell no, I don't think you want that. You couldn't trust her before, so do...

What you feel now is completely normal, I was exactly where you are now roughly 7 months ago. Read the Bible, initiate NC ASAP and don't play along her bs. Set your boundaries, and keep them. She had her choice, and all this "I need time for myself buhuhuhu" bullsh#t only serves one purpose ...

From here on, stay completely NC, except for the divorce stuff. You need to keep her away from you as far as possible, otherwise she will proceed to try to destroy your life and you. Keep your head up, May isn't that far away. Stay strong Bro!

Day: I don't give a sh#t anymore (thank God, took me 6 F@cking months) Dodged a bullet there guys. Met a 28yo HB8 at a concert on Friday (I'm 23, so I'm kinda proud). Night and the following day were awesome, even though I have some gaps in my memory due to alcohol. As we were both drunk a...

Stay strict NC from now on, this has been going on for way to long since she f#cked you over. From here on out, she never existed.

Two quite powerful quotes I stumbled across, both by author John Green: "The good times and the bad times both will pass. It will pass. It will get easier. But the fact that it will get easier does not mean that it doesn’t hurt now. And when people try to minimize your pain they are doing you...

Obviously bpd, you can actually be really glad that she's not your problem anymore. If the calls get out of hand, you can always block her number permanently from calling you, just have to talk to your provider. I did that a few years back when a chick didn't get that I'm not interested.

Damn, tough luck with that annoying b#tch.. I'd go crazy if I'd be bombarded with calls and mails like that. Keep ignoring her, it's the only way to go. I was in Wales this weekend for visiting an old friend (female, who I used to bang when she was still here) of mine who studies there. Had a...