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The only happily married long term couples I've encountered are those with very conservative morals who got together out of common goals be it career-related, to start a family, etc. Almost handshake agreements where their respect and love grows over time. They can't find the same investment...

I've noticed the same thing. Girls who are 4'11" or 5'9" are obsessed with tall men. Women who are normal height never notice height. Like everything else about relationships, it's a compensation thing. Everyone is looking for a partner who compensates for their own insecurities.

I wish someone warned me. BPD awareness should be like STD awareness. I've been dumped by non-BDPs. Shrugged it off. Saw it coming. Boring relationship, someone had to pull the plug. Whatever. I've dumped women. One who named her kitten after me. One who just got divorced and broke down in...

Jesus it sounds like you're living the dream. I wish all i could think about is making money. All i can think about is my ****ty liar ex so my career is on hiatus.

You can to a degree, because all the women you were chasing will realize they have 2 years left on the clock and desperately contact the guys they rejected 10 years ago. That their imaginary soulmate never found them. When they're 25 they'll brutally reject a guy who is 93% perfect just for...

Really good post man. It never helps me get over her when people on here post about "throwing BPDs in torture cells for how they manipulate love" etc. She was hurt BAD as a child. When her family was done abusing her, it would be off to be bullied at school, so she found the internet at a young...

It's good to get it off your chest here. Talking about my BPD ex here has prevented me from contacting her several times. I just found out from mutual friends tonight that her ex has rejected her. Her grand plot was to dump me then be saved by him (last time it was the opposite). Of course an...

Well to update I'm feeling a bit more mentally/emotionally stable. Exercise no matter how difficult to get started has remained my escape. I'm trying to motivate myself with the idea of going full chauvinist alpha pig and banging tons of girls but damn it's hard taking that first step when you...

Hmmm anything with dudes watching me have sex kills it

We fall head over heels in love with the women themselves while women just see us as a road to stuff they love (status/children/etc). Men are far more easy to reject/replace. Sad truth.

She called on an unblocked number. Sweet little girl voice is back. I said hello asked if it's an emergency then hung up. Just hearing her ****ed me up bad but I did as instructed. Am I alpha yet. No probably gonna cry myself to sleep again. But I didn't let her control me. I feel some shred of...

And she's back. Reinitiated contact. She hopes I found someone else to date but misses me as a friend. Taking all of my strength to ignore her. I've written a list of all the things she did to me and taped it right in front of my desk. It's still so hard. She meant more than life itself to me.

BPD gf was also bullied in school. Family did not directly beat her but beat each other and neglected her (narcissistic father left to start a "normal" family and left her with much younger, heartbroken mother). So she dealt in isolation and had no real escape. Spent her teenage years as an...

Not sure If I'm making progress or not. She hasn't contacted me in days and I'm controlling myself. Still extremely depressed and socially isolated. Was reading dr/psychiatrist forums and came to realize even seasoned mental health professionals sometimes avoid working with borderline patients...

If she is really BPD then they are all rebounds. She is going through the honeymoon phase where he does whatever he wants and she pretends to be his clone. Once the relationship becomes official, the torture and control will begin. I don't know what to think of online stalking IF it's just...

Every part of the "wake of destruction" a BPD leaves behind them is attractive the first time you meet one. -Wow, she hates everyone else. Maybe she likes special guys like me. -Wow, these guys all sound like insane losers. This should be easy. -I need to rescue her. My whole life has built up...

Do it for you not for women. If you do it for women then find out they don't care, you will lose your results.

All women test you with lil arguments. A BPD chick will flat out announce she's cheating right before you go to work, let you contemplate suicide all day, tell you she was JK when you get home then make you rub her feet. Run. The. ****. Away.

End it brother. She's waiting for you to break down and have a fit and proclaim your love for her... So she can pump up her own confidence (for other guys) and dump you again. The only way you will keep her attention is ignoring her and you can't have good memories, good sex with someone you're...

I think anything with "unless" attached is flawed. "Short guys can't get a girlfriend unless they're (insert desirable trait here). So basically it's not true. Basically not all women care about height and all of them will ignore it if you have other positive traits. So basically it's not that...