Sex is so demystified at our (mid 30s to 40s) age. A certain amount of the young girls (right now in my life) who see me as a potential mate are concerned about "sin" and are saving themselves for "the one." They're aging (even though mid-20s is still young, but if they're smart they'll know that their 28 is 44 in man years (dog years)), they know it, and they want children. My fear though, is that as these "sin" conscious (not many women are this way anymore, could care less about what "God" says) women/girls, once you bed them and then again and again and again, that once they reach demystification of Sex to your level, then they'll start wanderin,' they'll start thinking about divorce, EVEN IF you have children together with her. I have a couple (really, since birth, committed Christian girls) who want to start a family (with me, they think, but I don't let them know my true feelings for them which makes them want me more - it's not clear how I feel - I give, I pull back, I give, I pull back). She has No Clue the Sex (or what sex is Like) that is possible with a man, she may have messed around with her girlfriends throughout high school or during her successful sports, road trips etc. Her "in the darkness" will push her over to giving herself over, along with the age pressure and seeing friends "get married" and "seem to be happy" facebook etc. It's an overhype, an over expectation, that scares me as a 40 year old man. Once I fvck her, she'll be demystified...EVERYTHING changes, so now she can be open to "other" guys. I'll be demystified as well. Plus, if I am in business with her or her company, then I could be compromised, though I am able to handle and have handled these scenarios before. It's scary, American woman...you know, the country music lovin' (she's got "other" cowboys to turn to once she's done with you) type girl you could bring into your world, then once you fvck her, she can reject you, then not tell you she's rejected you, and string you along, rape your finances, then exit stage left. All these opportunities, plus no morals, even for Christian girls, Especially if they're American, makes commitment (the ultimate kind being marriage - gov't point a gun at you - the PO-lice gets involved) so dicey, so treacherous, slippery, and women don't realize that cause they're not rational and they do not CARE to know male nature, to know OUR side of the equation. They care NOTHING about what the man has to lose. They look not into the future. They step not into our shoes. We, as men, Try to step into their shoes, and try to Understand FEMALE nature, but they hardly ever try to understand us At All. So, these girls, who are not really "slvts" YET, are just as dangerous as the ones who already are (the ones who have been thoroughly demystified, the ones My age). Its our dilemma, the male threadin the camel through the eye of the needle. Nothing is safe with woman.
I believe women can look at you, the experienced "older" male, and see that you've been through a complex series of fvckings, and that's what makes you attractive to her, the Experience you can bestow upon her. But Many women, these days, BECAUSE THEY CAN (no shame, no threat of guilt anymore from the halls of Religion and common decency or societal mores), can Taste-test any number of men. They, like fish, can dart about from one man to another, with no consequences because no one really will keep tabs and no one will berate her, no one will hold her feet to the fire, hold her accountable. She will feel empowered to do whatever she Wants. If she's hot (but inexperienced due to her faith), and she chooses me because she has not another due to her pickiness whatever, that's scary, because once demystified (and if you're behind the barrel of current marriage/divorce laws), the floodgates are now open, and she can be chipped away by another male who wants to fvck your hot wife. A lot of men don't respect other people's marriage vows. A lot of men are just as immoral as the women they pursue.
